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For anyone who complains about a worker not smiling at them

What does it matter? You bought your chips and your lotto tickets, you got what you came here for now leave. Tell you what pay me $10 and I'll do whatever you say for a hour. That's more than I make at this damn place anyway. You give me $10 and I'll smile all you want. If someone not smiling at you wrecks your day that badly you sir need to grow a pair. Chances are I'm too tired and too sober to deal with your ass and I don't need to take anything from you.

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Coralmist · 41-45, F

I used to think if a worker didn't smile,
gee can'tt they be kind ? But that's a very linear black and white way of thinking. The person didn't MEAN Anything by not smiling and are probably tired. I grew up thinking I was bad if I didn't people please everyone..that I needed to make THEM feel good. It was a twisted thing to be taught. I'm going to try to just BE. If someone doesn't smile it's OK. Thank you for the post

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SW-User

@Coralmist Exactly!! Nobody knows about strangers inner struggles, but we all have them. If someone is worth having in your life, they will accept you for YOU. The good days and the bad. You are so worth it. 🤗

Coralmist · 41-45, F

@SW-User Yes..same. thanks for your empathy. I started to give up ME over time, just to feel accepted. I felt like a slave to others. Now I see so many ways that NOT pleasing people has nothing to do with if I'm good or bad. As humans it's more than ok to just be sometimes and not think what are they thinking of me? I'm glad I'm learning this. Thanks🌿⛄

Coralmist · 41-45, F

@SW-User Ty so much. 😘🌺

Ingwe · F

smile and make someones day a little brighter

SW-User

@Ingwe Clocking out and going home makes my day brighter

MethDozer · M

Word. For the most part people want to smile and rather be smiling. So when they aren't? Probably have some good reason.

SW-User

@MethDozer Smile when it feels genuine. I'm not a fan of the forced shit.

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