I Am a Military Girlfriend

Yes I can fully understand why this bothers you! The bottom line is... If he can log into Facebook do a status then he should as sure as hell be messaging you, it does not take even a minute to write 'hello' do not satisfy for anything less... You deserve to be loved ..tell him you will not be second best to Facebook ..if he sees that as controlling or needy tell him how I bet he be pissed if you did it to him.....it's a about respect and you being strong and assertive . :)

Saxappeal thanks! I really just needed someone else's opinion and view point on that. I really try not to be too assertive and demanding because I can get like that. 😶😶

Another thing you can do is tell him how much you appreciate him trying to message you as he is busy.. Tell him you love his messages and keeps you going throughout your day....

Undercover did. He posted something about ten letters and "his ship will sunk." (Apparently, it was posted four days ago.)

Remember being assertive is so very different than appearing needy or passive aggressive ...you have needs

Professorplum I never said anything about a ship...lol he doesn't get on a ship for a while...

Professorplum ohhhh. Lol. I didn't even notice that post

His ship will "sunk"? You have your tenses mixed up.

I don't think you missed much. :(

Carlosdesol lol. Why?