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Flenflyys · 31-35, F
People with actual, diagnoses personality disorders are destructive and annoying.
Histrionic traits are friendship killers
Histrionic traits are friendship killers
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@Flenflyys They can be draining and destructive to any relationship if the person doesn't seek help. And yes, a source of extreme annoyance.
It's interesting that those traits are so often rewarded in these settings.
It's interesting that those traits are so often rewarded in these settings.
Flenflyys · 31-35, F
Because everything on the internet is superficial
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@Flenflyys Most everything, I agree.
SomeHand · 31-35, M
To give the attention to behaviours that are incompatible or alternative to the harmful behaviours that the person engages in. That’s is more compassionate. That entails blocking the behaviour.
Attention seeking is normal and healthy. The behaviours can be wholesome or unhealthy. Consequences should meet the motivational needs of the person.
ABCs
Attention seeking is normal and healthy. The behaviours can be wholesome or unhealthy. Consequences should meet the motivational needs of the person.
ABCs
I wouldn't encourage but it's not like I don't have mental problems
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@SW-User no, why would you?
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@MushroomFaerie It's just a discussion I've opened up because I've had family and friends who have used manipulation tactics and it gets tiresome. I've had to let a friend go because I wasn't up for "I'm going to kill myself if you don't stay up until 3 AM on the phone with me every night." It's pervasive and I see a lot of those behaviors rewarded and reinforced here.
My ex-bf's mother suffered from this disorder and it had a profound impact on our relationship because he'd constantly give in to her. It's impacted my life a great deal.
My ex-bf's mother suffered from this disorder and it had a profound impact on our relationship because he'd constantly give in to her. It's impacted my life a great deal.
@SW-User yes, you need to limit contact and take care of yourselves.
If they did actually take their life it has nothing to do with you or anybody else, it's their illness and we all know most people who constantly scream suicide are not actually gonna do it.
If they did actually take their life it has nothing to do with you or anybody else, it's their illness and we all know most people who constantly scream suicide are not actually gonna do it.
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I ignore it. I don't want to deal with it. "Calling it out" probably results in a scene as well, so I prefer ignoring it.
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@SW-User Ignoring it would probably be the best thing to do.