zvox77 · 46-50, M
I am so sorry for your lose. I lost my mom last Christmas Eve 2015. My dad was lost for about 8 months. He is finally becoming a new person. It just takes time and prayers.
Sweet517 · 51-55, F
I'm so sorry. I've walked in your shoes. Here's a hug❤️
GJOFJ3 · 61-69, M
Wow that is tough. Prayers and warm thoughts sent to you.
sweetiepiehuggs · 41-45, F
thank you hun.
I am so sorry. You are both in my prayers.
sweetiepiehuggs · 41-45, F
thank you so much.
@sweetiepiehuggs: your wwlcome
Newandimproved · 61-69, M
I'm sorry for your loss dear.
sweetiepiehuggs · 41-45, F
thank you very much.
Newandimproved · 61-69, M
take as much time as you need to grieve and don't let people tell you that you're young and will find another love - just nod and smile - they mean well
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AllAboutLaffs · 80-89, M
I am so sorry.
sweetiepiehuggs · 41-45, F
thank you.
Newandimproved · 61-69, M
give yourself months to grieve
you know the list
shock
denial
bargaining
anger
acceptance
they happen in various stages and overlap
your guts will churn
and then you'll realize you just laughed at something
don't feel guilty for it
you know the list
shock
denial
bargaining
anger
acceptance
they happen in various stages and overlap
your guts will churn
and then you'll realize you just laughed at something
don't feel guilty for it
Leeand29 · 61-69, F
So for you loss. It is a long lonely road ahead but you will make it. I have been widowed almost 4yrs.
Starbursteffect · 51-55, F
So sorry about your husband. I'm sending you comfort and hugs.
sweetiepiehuggs · 41-45, F
thank you hun. hugs back.
I am sorry. I lost someone as well.
sweetiepiehuggs · 41-45, F
I am sorry as well hun. Hugs
yfma53 · 70-79, M
I am so sorry for your loss.
Mugin16 · 46-50, M
I am sorry for your loss.
JaneDoe23 · F
I'm sorry
sweetiepiehuggs · 41-45, F
thank you
Wow. Christ. How horrible. I hope you are holding up as well as you can. What a terrible thing to have happen. I wish I knew what to say.
polyandrym66 · 70-79, M
Are you better yet honey?
sweetiepiehuggs · 41-45, F
no. but I am trying. I feel like the days are getting harder because everything is becoming more real. But I am keeping busy and surrounding myself with people and I have a really good support system. Its just all those little things you know. They seem to hit you all of a sudden. And I don't know how I am going to deal with the holidays yet. But I am taking it one day at a time.
polyandrym66 · 70-79, M
@sweetiepiehuggs: Having gone through a similar thing, I'd suggest that you rent a storage unit and empty your home of everything that was HIS and that reminds/triggers you about HIM.. You can deal with it all later...
Even your clothes that HE liked you to wear and hobby items you two shared.
Then I'd begin telling your circle of friends that you do NOT want to dwell on HIM for a while (some will go away)..
It will allow you some space to heal (not forget) without so much pain.
Even your clothes that HE liked you to wear and hobby items you two shared.
Then I'd begin telling your circle of friends that you do NOT want to dwell on HIM for a while (some will go away)..
It will allow you some space to heal (not forget) without so much pain.
vlad1000 · 41-45, M
What was the cause of death? 40 years old is terribly young age to die:( I am sorry!
If you need help with extra income, I might be able to steer you in the right directions...depending on your skill sets
If you need help with extra income, I might be able to steer you in the right directions...depending on your skill sets
BabyLonia · F
I'm so sorry
sweetiepiehuggs · 41-45, F
thank you hun.
uncalled4 · 56-60, M
Very sorry.