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SW-User
Quietly. I keep it to myself for the most part... process it all on my own.
Montanaman · M
@SW-User same 😔🤗
Do you cry?@SW-User
SW-User
@Stark Sometimes when it gets really overwhelming.
Just harboring anger & sadness until i break down at the most inopportune times & then repeat.
AnonymousJSS · 22-25, F
Alone, silent, quiet, mad (maybe)
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Montanaman · M
@AnonymousJSS 💞🤗😘
TeresaRudolph71 · 51-55, F
I cry a lot, and I think about what the person meant to me. And sometimes I talk about that with someone else, if I can find someone who understands.
swandfriends · 41-45, F
If I hear someone passed away. It doesn't affect me till later on a few hours or next day. I grieved bad over my soulmate dying. Felt heavy, angry, like a part of myself went to the grave with him. And I'm one that wants to talk and talk about the person that died
DragonFruit · 61-69, M
First, I’m the strong one....consoling the others. Then I go to a place where I can be alone, and I think about the person....about the good times we had together, of specific occurrences that brought out the unique aspect of that person’s personality. I smile....and I cry....and I think about what the person meant to me. Sometimes I drink.
Everybody grieves differently. Some people in my wife’s family wail and moan and cry buckets....to me it seems almost like a stage production, but it is how they grieve. I’ve always grieved more quietly. Grieving to me is a very personal thing, and when I grieve I keep my feelings mostly to myself.....which doesn’t mean that I don’t care as much or that the feelings aren’t there.
Peaceful · F
I'm usually the one consoling everyone else, so my process becomes longer. But I think that is part of how I cope with grief, if that makes sense?
Is it like a distraction to console others ?@Peaceful
Peaceful · F
@Stark no. It's just my reality. I don't seek it out. It seeks me out.
I shut down and go dark. It’s horrible.
Montanaman · M
@DarkHeaven 😔🤗🤗
SailorMarz · F
I'm a huge crybaby.

But i don't like crying in front of people so i do it in the shower or in the car.

Even when i'm mad, i can't just be mad, my ass has to cry about it
That’s cute@SailorMarz
Straylight · 31-35, F
I can handle a lot on my own, but I'll seek emotional support from my family.
@Straylight I love you. 🖤🤗
TheFragile · 46-50, M
Six years ago, I would have said by drinking. Now, I really don't know how to.
Usually quietly in private.
Secret6620 · F
Lots of crying.
StarLily · 51-55, F
SW-User
SW-User
I drink a lot and keep to myself.
butterfly1013 · 26-30, F
Cry, eat , laugh and shake it off
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chuck7882 · 61-69, M
Feeling of numbness
Withdraw or drink
ButterRobot · 51-55, M
AthrillatheHunt · 51-55, M
slimjim · 22-25, M
uncalled4 · 56-60, M
Going through it right now. Just kinda floating, a bit numb at times.
Mrsbetweenfatandfit · 26-30, F
I seek solace in solitude.
Every time someone I love has by choice or by chance left me I have dealt with it by being alone. I don’t like to cry with others or ask how others are dealing with that loss or another similar to mine. I just slip away from everyone else & ponder that persons life, their relationship to me. What their absence will take from my life or what it can help create. I just need to think & feel whatever I am without anyone touching me or talking to me.
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Do you cry?@LvChris
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