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NO MEANS NO.

Why is so hard for some people to understand that when a girls says NO, then it means NO?

No matter how she is dressed, or what she had said before, if she now says NO, then it is NO.
grayhalo · 41-45, M
Partly because in movies and TV a guy being persistent is rewarded eventually by getting the girl and then it's seen in retrospect as being romantic. He wore her down and now she loves him.
Northwest · M
@grayhalo There's that, but then again, people should have functional brains of their own. This is not rocket science.
grayhalo · 41-45, M
You are correct. People are capable enough to read the room so to speak. But in reality that doesn't seem to be the case.
GJOFJ3 · 61-69, M
Definitely. No always means NO.
Evidently some women don't understand that either.
This story from Florida:

After her boyfriend said he was too tired to have sex, a Florida Woman allegedly grabbed a kitchen knife and slashed him multiple times on the arm and shoulder, according to a criminal complaint.

The confrontation between Jennifer Lee Chapman, 37, and her live-in boyfriend occurred around 5:45 AM Friday in the couple’s apartment in Dunedin, a Tampa suburb
AndyC · 22-25, F
@GJOFJ3 Degrading.

Male or female. No is no.
GJOFJ3 · 61-69, M
@AndyC Florida has a special kind of crazy people
SW-User
Some people are dumb shits. I've never had a problem understanding the word no.
QuixoticSoul · 41-45, M
There are a lot of reasons. Some people are just shitty people who don’t value consent. And sometimes people get their wires crossed - courtship rituals are contextual and cultural, and in some places a man is expected to [i]know[/i] when no means yes and disengagement is unwelcome..

It’s 2019 though, time to leave those kinds of games behind.
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You’re right, of course. But I’ll never forget a [b]woman[/b] here saying, “Most women don’t know what they want anyway, and they play hard to get.” I replied, “Speak for [b]yourself[/b]. A smart man will assume that she does know and what she [b]says[/b] is what she means. If she’s playing ‘hard to get’ she just won’t get ‘got’.”
Shouldn't be that hard to get, no is no... Simple as that.
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AndyC · 22-25, F
@RippinKlouds No ALWAYS means NO.
Northwest · M
There should be no confusion here.
Justenjoyit · 56-60, M
Personally when men tell women to stop nagging they should stop, but they dont 😂
AndyC · 22-25, F
@Justenjoyit Well, they have to.

Stop is stop.
And no is no.

Male or female.

 
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