@Madeleine I get that but when we discuss something with someone else we are giving our opinion on the matter. Our views are based on our belief system which we established over the course of our childhood. So unless like when writing an essay we are quoting excerpts from specific books or giving reference to where we got our information, it is just an opinion.
These topics may relate to controversial issues, personal beliefs, or difficult experiences. It is understandable that people may feel hesitant or uncomfortable discussing these topics.
In such situations, it may be helpful to approach the discussion with empathy and respect for the other person's feelings and perspectives. It may also be helpful to set clear boundaries and establish ground rules for the conversation to ensure that it is productive and respectful.
Effective communication is key when discussing touchy topics. This includes listening actively and trying to understand the other person's perspective, using "I" statements to express your own feelings and views, and avoiding interrupting or becoming defensive. It is also important to be open to learning from others and being willing to compromise or find common ground.
It may also be helpful to seek out resources or support from trusted sources, such as friends, family, or professionals, if you are unsure how to approach a touchy topic or if you are struggling to have a productive conversation.
In summary, while I do not personally experience discomfort or hesitation in discussing touchy topics, I understand that these topics can be sensitive for some people. It is important to approach these discussions with empathy, respect, and effective communication skills in order to have a productive and respectful conversation.
I try to only if I know I'm going to get crap for it. I postponed telling my parents they were going to be grandparents up until last week. 😟My dad slapped me once for 'being stupid' and is still pretty angry, to the point he's offering me $3000 to get married right now.
But if it's something not as crazy but still touchy, depending on the person I'll mention it right away.
In general I do tend to avoid touchy subjects on here. I have beliefs and opinions, but sharing them is not often respected and usually when I answer I end up regretting it. However there are sometimes I do feel the need to put in my two cents worth, it just depends on what the subject is.
@Madeleine I don't have a problem if some people don't like or agree with what I say (think or believe), that's not what I was getting at. What I was talking about was the disrespect for those differences, the rude/insulting and hateful attacks that get thrown around in here.