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Is it possible to love more then one person?

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HappyBella · 41-45, F
Yes but it can make life complicated.
@HappyBella good answer!
UndeadPrivateer · 31-35, M
Sure, one can have more than one true friend. That's love too.
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There are people who say they feel romantic love for more than two people.
And then there is someone like me who can only see one man when I am in love with him.
I guess it depends on the person and what they see love as. Love is not really definable or boxed within parameters.

Platonic love is just ever giving. You can feel it for as many people as you let yourself feel for.
I think it's possible to love many people in many different ways. The way I define romantic love, while it's possible to be attracted to others, it's not possible to love more than one romantically, because my definition of the real article is - when all assessments are complete, I want you, always you, and only you.

This is MY definition. I don't assume it to be everyone's.
JaggedLittlePill · 46-50, F
Yes but you have to make a choice you can't have your cake and eat it too. That is just my thoughts on it.
Dirtman1956 · 61-69, M
Yes I believe it is. I think some people have a bottomless supply of love to give. The problem is many don’t want to share your heart and your love. They want you all to themselves.
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[c=#359E00]everything possible[/c]
ProThrall · 31-35, F
@YukikoAmagi I believe that too
LondonCowboy · 51-55, M
So do I 🌹@ProThrall
Yes.

I assume you mean what the Greeks would call [i]pathos[/i] love, because the answers for both [i]eros[/i] and [i]agape[/i] are pretty clearly YES.
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mywayhere · 61-69, M
Yes and lot of people do it. They might not admit it but I think we all find somebody in our life we fall in love with besides our spouse or loved one. Some people will say no I don't think so but they well end up cheating on their spouse or find their spouse cheating on them which could be a they found a second person that they love as much as the original spouse so easy to say no. If that was completely true then how do you divorce spouse one and marry spouse two and some spouse three. So the person is now love 3 people instead of 2. So does that constitute a love for more than one person or not.
Mk8155 · M
Of course. I have met ppl that are entirely different from my spous and had feelings for. We talked about this early on in our marriage it fun to experiment
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Montanaman · M
@BlueClapTrap 😂🤣 you're Killin meh 🤭😁
cravingbodynsoul · 41-45, M
yes it is definitely possible. Everyone has been into that situation - but seldom they accept it.
Reject · 26-30, M
Yes, and there's nothing wrong with it either as long as any of your love interests know what you're about.
Northerner · 70-79, M
It is a fine line between Love and Lust. Maybe some people get confused.
It depends on what sort of love you are talking about.
Danez · M
Absolutely but they may not like that
Bluesky52 · 61-69, M
yes it is,it's how you love em,
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Yes I've been in that situation
indyjoe · 56-60, M
Yes it is possible...BUT you can't love both (or more) in the same ways and to the same extent. You just can't give and devote all of your love or yourself to multiple people as would be able to one, and that is not fair to them. Just my thoughts on it, but to each his own.
Pdad49 · M
Yes in different ways!
PTCdresser57 · 61-69, M
Yes...been there
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love is not a cake, one is not diminished because another has some.
for those fierce of heart, it is not only possible, but enevitable
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I truly believe you can love multiple people at once. I do not believe humans were made to be monogamous
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SailingSlow · 61-69, M
Yes, but the reciprocation is tough to get right
hearttalk · M
It takes balance and awareness.
Montanaman · M
There are different degrees of love. 🤗💕🌹
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ninjavu · 51-55, M
Depends what kind of love you mean, but my general answer would be yes.
Reflection2 · 41-45, M
Serial cheaters can.
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@Reflection2 not really. Serial cheaters only love one person and that's themselves
Reflection2 · 41-45, M
@SW-User their lust make them peek around by giving it different names
Newconvo2 · 46-50, M
Do you mean “in love”?
chrisCA · M
I believe so.

 
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