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Would you leave the person you’re in love with to be with the person you’ve promised to be with forever?

SW-User
"Be with" has a loose interpretation. I can still be with my past loves in spirit, friendship even, but never leave the one I'm in love with. ;)

If you're adamant about picking one or the other, I'd rather stay with the one I'm in love with. Words are fleeting, promises break, but actions reach farther than all of them. :)
SW-User
@cloudi I agree love is multifaceted. You have the [i]feeling[/i], [i]devotion[/i], and the [i]act.[/i] Each of them can make or break someone.

Honestly, the love I have for my current lover is different than the love I have for my past ones. What they have is a more general-I-don't-want-you-to-get-hurt and we-can-still-be-friends kind of love. :p

What she has is...well...I can spend hours writing that out. Lol
cloudi · 36-40, F
@SW-User haha... Well... I wish you two to always be in that kind of “in love with” 😊
SW-User
@cloudi lol thank you. ;)
Gangstress · 41-45, F
@KaysHealingPath neither would i hun
User41 · 36-40, M
No. That’s a shit spot to be in but if your with someone your not in love with that’s unfair to both parties
cloudi · 36-40, F
@User41 ya, but you did make the promise.
User41 · 36-40, M
Yeah but would you rather someone be with you because they promised or because they loved you?
cloudi · 36-40, F
@User41 I’m scared to the real answer.
Iamjessie · M
Probably. But I’d just end up going back and forth tbh 🤣
cloudi · 36-40, F
@Iamjessie 😓
Salix75 · 46-50, F
No. but then, I wouldn't make a promise to be with someone I wasn't in love with ...
SW-User
That's a decision I hope never have to make.
cloudi · 36-40, F
@SW-User the key is to keep fall in love with the one you’ve promised to.
SW-User
At some point I might. Maybe when we are in our 60’s.
cloudi · 36-40, F
@SW-User um. At 60 you imagine you’ll in love with someone else?
Yes. My word is all I have.
cloudi · 36-40, F
@IvanKaramazov which word?
jackson55 · M
One has to be happy.
cloudi · 36-40, F
@Teggy it is such an annoying question.
cloudi · 36-40, F
@Gangstress Need to think deeply.
SW-User

 
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