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Seriously

A male/female abuser/harasser insisting to be the reason of a person’s triumphs in life needs to get over himself/herself?

Isn’t it common sense placing anyone in psychologically/phycially harmful situations only increase inapt courses in life if he/she isn’t psychologically/physically prepared/happy/devoted/commited
/dedicated to changes? She/he can 100% psychologically/physically malfunction; you ever visit the Psychiatric Hospital?

Ultimately the person decides vital decisions for herself/himself. they have nothing to do with the abusers/harassers/traumas; the abusers/psychological & physical trauma(s) are never derivations of strengths. They internally excrete pains, negativities, despairs, hatred, etc, while demolishing energies/souls of the hosts.
Maybe the followings reasons are why the majority of individuals still need additional/external inspirations, motivations, salvations, strengths, guidances/support, etc?
Sure, external assistances are available, however a person’s qualities, characters, commitments,resiliences, preservances, self-esteems, adaptabilites, virtues, beliefs, priorities, values, principles, faiths, capabilities, etc are all needed/essential for the correct course in life. Willingness/accepting/capable of changes are pivotal indicators for better decisions.

The abusers/traumas aren’t included in the survivors future for obvious reasons, so abusers/harassers need to irrelevantly stop reliving/inserting/reminiscing/obsessing
/bitching over themselves/survivors(the past) regarding the survivors’s new life/present/future/anything. The past is in the past(,unless using it as a warning sign).
Catastrophes & turmoils by abusers/harassers are never the reasons how/why anyone become successful/who they/he/she are/is.

[b]Personally, there’s no existence of a broken/damaged person.
She/he simply know better now, than making identical mistake/error twice.
Lessons were learnt.
It’s a choice/freedom/right to change.
Altering is inevitable for an ethical life [/b]

Traumas, adversities, trials, harassers/abusers, past, etc never define an individual. They never psychologically/physically made a person stronger/kinder. The person’s personal/own decisions to survive/thrive/live/accept changes are the solutions/reasonings.

(P.S. Audiences, all my posts under “Personal, Thoughts, Feelings” are literally my [u]personal[/u] experiences/scrutinies. I appreciate anyone sharing their personal experiences/sentiments in response to my post(s), although do you agree or not with me? That’s irrelevant/negligible to me as we’re all unique individuals in different realities. Having divergent experiences thus different/tailored (selt-)facts/notions/realism. Thanks)


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28/01/2018
[b]No offences[/b]

All my life I never initiated disputes first/at all(10000000000000% uninterested x infinity x eternity 🤦🏻‍♀️😐😴); I solely [u]defended[/u] myself. They get envious/bitchy/hateful when I’m incorrect😐. (I’m anti-dramas/gossips/conflicts
/negativities/sins/bitches/haters thus there’s [u]nil[/u] motive/benefit for me to waste time on the followings x infinity x eternity🤷🏻‍♀️😐. I only speak up when I need to.

[i] I inevitably apologise when I’m wrong. I believe in changes/adaptability/open-mindedness/kindness/refining/improving. I do my best to mend everything asap. I can’t anticipate forgiveness as I respect other’s personal decisions/limitations in life)[/i]

I effortly slaughtered people out of my lives for legitiment psychology/physical health’s purposes. As it was never my fault first, the sharp slash was unforeseen/incomprehensible to them. [u]I never/can’t forgive/forget.
[/u]

I learn quick, yet [b]I move on quickest.[/b] They end up stalking/obsessing/hating/bitching over the the ghosts of me since they’re in disbelief of who I am. I felt sorry for them, nevertheless it wasn’t my fault they misinterpreted my kindness was weakness😐. My [u]kindness is strength[/u]❤️😴.

Some people battle their lives to be kind as their past consist traumas/tribulations/ordeals/adversities. [b]It’s obvious why they’re wise/mature.[/b] They survive to never repeat the “weak abusive cycle” of the weak abusers.

Kindness is a choice. It’s strengths/intelligences/wisdoms.

Overly kind people are kind as they empathise how it feels to be hurt thus they never wish it upon another x infinity x eternity. They know better

Some people are too kind for your comprehensions/beliefs if you aren’t kind yourself, or your never experience pure kindness. You’ll justify it with hidden motives as it’s incomprehensible to you. Some people have nil hidden motives; it opposes to their virtues/values/beliefs(who they are).

Time is answer. yes, It’s best to never assume motives then judging everything/everyone via assumptions(directly ask/100000000% know person, simple ).

Negativity, cynicism, pessimistic, etc are only combating against someone returning to be genuinely kind.

[b]Negativity, cynicism, pessimistic, etc themselves aren’t kind at all thus why you’re referencing them to seek/understand legitimate kindness?[/b]

There’s a new generation of kindness. Kindess is strength. It’s strong. Weak people masking/justifying their insecurities(whatever their issues are) via Negativity, cynicism, pessimism, etc to witness the downfall of one another of our human race are acceptable.

⚠️Clarification: It’s my [b]personal[/b] post. It’s called freedom of speech. I can [b]expose anyone[/b] since they desperately/ignorantly/enviously
/obsessively harassed me first(it’s self-defence). There’re [b]differences between[/b] [u]exposing[/u] haters/bitches via posts, and caring about what haters/bitches think/say. Thank you⚠️

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31/01/2018
🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔
[u]Social statuses[/u][i](people’s professions in life were driven/achieved/motivated by divergent purposes/influences)[/i]and [u]characters/virtues/compatibilities[/u][i](who they are as a person)[/i]are [b]dimentions apart[/b]. It’s global.

Skills/accumulated-knowledges are skills/informations mastered/memorised for [i]anyone[/i] wishing to be [b]devoted[/b]).[/u] Simple. These’re insignificant to me🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️. It’s not a big deal 😐.

These’re prime awarenesses why I love/respect/support/honour people’s kindness, considerations, respectfulness, understandings, etc in their hearts/souls/consciousness/unique-intelligences instead of their present social statuses/wealth.

[i]I’m always in awe by who I respect/love/admire[/i] [b]most at the end.[/b]They’re never always apparent/fluorescent.
[u]I need you to know that I admire/respect/love your existence/survival in life. Thank you very for much who you are❤️. I’m inspired/aspired. [/u]
My senses/rationales are blind/distracted/attacked/hacked at times. I’m sorry for not being perfect/genius/flawless hence I can’t always distinguish you in crowd (straight away).
I would disagree.
Pain usually in most cases diminish normal people and expose them as prey

Yet they are the exceptions who can use pain as a motivation given, they have lived through it and are still able to function...given they begin to realize something about themselves; that they aren't weak and pathetic just like everyone else.

Yet i do admire you application of strength and free will you assume people have.


When most don't indulge themselves nearly enough to come to the conclusions you have mentioned...

I can testify to what i say.
As a former Grim Reaper i took souls and did what i want with them and ive only had love and mercy for those i could not destroy.

How someone reacts under life changing situations tells me more about themselves then observing someone in an environment which benefits them most

There most be a variable to validate the results.
kush90 · 26-30, M
[b]I’m sorry but I can’t private message. Thank you for your coordination and apprehension.[/b]


Than why you come at similar worlds.
masterofyou · 70-79, M
Great point and great post.... There are a lot of broken abused people here... I wish all of them and you peace....

 
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