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I Love My Boyfriend

[b]just to make things clear, I’m asking for advice on what to say to him, there’s no way I’m going headfirst into this moment without knowing what to say, also not playing the victim, as I agree that both sides need to work on the situation together[/b]

I do love my boyfriend, but since we’re getting closer and closer to 5 months into the relationship, he’s goes onto his Xbox a few times, and I’m happy for him, but it makes me want to go home, even though I can’t suggest any other activities to do, but I just feel that I’m not needed. Also I’m pretty sure he takes his gaming seriously,I tried playing Battlefield and I can tell he gets frustrated, and so do I because it’s just a game. I do love him, but could this be the end of our relationship? He’s my first partner, but I do love him, but sometimes he does act a little immature for a 21 year old, and yes I know that he’s still young.
But I do love him and just need more advice as to trying to get his attention more, because I feel the Xbox will rule over this relationship, please help.
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ThePerfectUsername · 70-79, M
X-boxes, just like home computers before them and TV's before them can and often do create a wedge between couples that eventually drives them apart. I'm not saying that's going to happen to you but if it did you wouldn't be the first.

Of course you know or at least sense that threat, and all I can think of in the way of advice would be for you to have a long hard think before hand and present him with a well prepared list of all the things you worry might happen and how much you want to avoid drifting apart.

And if he still wants to play x-box in your presence and without your involvement then maybe you ought to be seriously considering whether he's really the one for you. Good luck.
Fernie · F
@ThePerfectUsername The person addicted to the games creates the wedge
ThePerfectUsername · 70-79, M
pedant :-P @Fernie