I Love My Boyfriend

[b]just to make things clear, I’m asking for advice on what to say to him, there’s no way I’m going headfirst into this moment without knowing what to say, also not playing the victim, as I agree that both sides need to work on the situation together[/b]

I do love my boyfriend, but since we’re getting closer and closer to 5 months into the relationship, he’s goes onto his Xbox a few times, and I’m happy for him, but it makes me want to go home, even though I can’t suggest any other activities to do, but I just feel that I’m not needed. Also I’m pretty sure he takes his gaming seriously,I tried playing Battlefield and I can tell he gets frustrated, and so do I because it’s just a game. I do love him, but could this be the end of our relationship? He’s my first partner, but I do love him, but sometimes he does act a little immature for a 21 year old, and yes I know that he’s still young.
But I do love him and just need more advice as to trying to get his attention more, because I feel the Xbox will rule over this relationship, please help.

SW-User

I would tend to say that if he's with you he can stay off the Xbox. When he's on his own he can play all he likes. That would seem fair to me, otherwise what's the point in you even being there? You're right, you might as well go home. If he really can't be away from his gaming long enough to hang out with you then yes, this relationship is going nowhere fast.