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I Am Graduating High School This Year

Why is it that now, in my second semester of senior year, I'm feeling so conflicted over prom? I never even cared before. But now it feels like, since it's coming up, and it's my last chance, I really want to go. And I'm told if I don't, I'll regret it in the future. But I've never even dated and have no one to go with! This, combined with college and a few other probably silly things, makes me feel so awkward and different, in an uncomfortable way that I haven't felt for about a year and a half now. Ugh I'm not expecting anyone to respond to this and I'll probably delete it but I just feel like I wasted four years compared to everyone else and the whole thing is making me uneasy and somewhat stressed, I just wanted to say...

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Bean17 · 51-55, F

It's not uncommon to go with a group of friends. Plus, half the fun is shopping for a dress and getting all dolled up. Lol. It's like a nice night out on the town to wrap up your high school career. But if you decide not to go, that wouldn't negate all you've worked for and achieved either!

justthat1girl99 · 22-25, F

Unfortunately I don't have friends like that anymore haha, but that does sound nice. And thank you, that is very encouraging.

Bean17 · 51-55, F

Well anyhoo--going by yourself could be very empowering too. Or not going at all--whichever you decide is best for you.🤗@justthat1girl99:

justthat1girl99 · 22-25, F

Thank you

Sebastianblack · 36-40, M

I know it seems like middle school and highschool was a big deal, but trust me it's not. The next phase of your life will be very different even if you go to college immediately. In a couple years what you did or didnt do in high school wont even matter to you. Think about your future.

justthat1girl99 · 22-25, F

Thank you, I certainly will and I'll try my best

Sebastianblack · 36-40, M

@justthat1girl99: Welcome. I decided not to go to prom back when i was in HS. I dont regret it either. I think you are mostly feeling this way because so many of your friends are going. I know this sounds crazy but, try not to get too caught up in what your friends are doing. Be independant,be yourself, be original, and people will naturally be drawn to you.

justthat1girl99 · 22-25, F

I think that might be why too haha. Feels like a lot of pressure. I think once I get past the whole graduation thing and get settled into college, and start forming new relationships, I'll pretty much be past it, whether I do or don't go. Thank you, I really appreciate your comment.

krf336 · M

I was the same way, but i am a guy... i ended up going because a girl asked me.

You only get one, if you want to go, make it happen, if you decide you dont.. then dont lose any sleep.

Youll get the dating part down later. Life isnt over, your just getting to the fun parts!

justthat1girl99 · 22-25, F

I was just wondering myself if it was different for guys and girls haha. And thank you, ill try not to let it get to me too much

krf336 · M

nah, its not that different.... although guys your age would never admit it!

justthat1girl99 · 22-25, F

Oh haha okay

hlpflwthat · M

If it balances things out any - I've never regretted skipping prom. It wasn't the cool thing to do at the time.

But if you think you'd regret it, by all means 'go!' What's the worst y'know? Have fun!

justthat1girl99 · 22-25, F

Thank you. I guess the worst that could happen is me standing awkwardly on the side by myself looking depressed lol. But if I do end up going, I'll definitely try not to be a wallflower haha. Thank you

Invisible · 26-30, M

It couldn't possibly matter any less than it does. The people who care about prom and think of it as being so meaningful are the ones who are missing out

justthat1girl99 · 22-25, F

Thank you, I'll definitely keep that in mind

AllAboutLaffs · 80-89, M

Nope nope nope .... step outside that box you created and go to the prom .... even if it's with other single girls ..... go and have fun ...

justthat1girl99 · 22-25, F

I'll try haha

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justthat1girl99 · 22-25, F

Thank you, although I feel like now that it's so close, I'm not prepared at all, but I'll do my best

SW-User

Yo should definitely go to the prom and find someone to go with you. It will be fun.

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