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Is this guy having me on?

He claims that he can't finish when masturbating because I've overstimulated him visually in a past video call. He claims to be fixated with me. This can't be real.. this guy has slept with many and I'm not even his type.

I think he's talking to someone else actually.
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TexChik · F
Run ! Don’t walk , away from that guy !
[@113373,TexChik] he lives 11,000 miles away lol
TexChik · F
[@411057,PaleandPolluted] thank God !
Degbeme · 61-69, M
🙄 ... over stimulate?
Lilymoon · 46-50, F
He's playing you methinks 🙄
Lackwittyname · 46-50, M
Sounds lame to me, I would stop contact, if your gut is telling you something I would follow it. I have no problem finishing, especially if I am overstimulated, finish even easier then
Lackwittyname · 46-50, M
[@411057,PaleandPolluted] Sounds fishy, I would just say if it does not feel right move on
[@1430,Lackwittyname] something does feel off. Think I'm a rebound, once he gets someone who's his type he will bugger off and tbh i probably will.
Lackwittyname · 46-50, M
[@411057,PaleandPolluted] Yeah, spend your energy on something that feels good for you
Ofc he is. When he say stuff like that it clear he lying
ViciDraco · 36-40, M
He's either lying or needs medical help if he can't finish to overstimulation.
Iamonfire666 · 31-35, F
He wants pictures of you. He is being manipulative. Get rid of him.
[@10165,Iamonfire666] interesting.. i didn't get that vibe. He's been using clothed photos a while. He did try and get me to sexy up my photos and then claimed it was so i could get more likes 🤔
Iamonfire666 · 31-35, F
[@411057,PaleandPolluted] that’s what I take from what you said.
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DunningKruger · 56-60, M
I'm not sure it's possible to be overstimulated while masturbating, unless you have a lot of flashing lights going off around you.
DunningKruger · 56-60, M
[@411057,PaleandPolluted] Ah, I see. So, he's trying to beat his meat fantasizing about having the ol' in-out, in-out with you, but your image has so burned its way across his synapses that he can't cum unless he's actually watching you on the screen.

And am I right in understanding that you weren't even getting nekkid for him?
[@10617,DunningKruger] ohh I was..
DunningKruger · 56-60, M
[@411057,PaleandPolluted] Oh, so you were getting nekkid for him, then, to fuel his lustful fantasies, etc., etc.?

It may well be that he just wants more of that and has difficulty visualizing without that stimulus there. Some people do.

Could it be that he's having you on? Maybe, but considering that you've already put on a show for him, I don't know why he would be. It sounds like he just wants more of the snacks you've been serving.

What matters is how you feel about it. Does it turn you on, or does it make you feel icky? You do what's good for you.
fortycreek · M
seems very strange!
[@8094,fortycreek] hes playing at something, for someone so obsessed there was clearly someone else occupying his attention.
fortycreek · M
[@411057,PaleandPolluted] i would agree, i dont understand why but there are many things I dont understand lol
butterfly1013 · 26-30, F
It sounds like he's making stuff up.
[@5845,butterfly1013] hes possibly met someone else and bizarrely tryin get away.. whatever happens my faith in myseld has been restored lol.
Graylight · 46-50, F
I wouldn't even entertain communication with someone who's come-on was that he can't stop masturbating.
Graylight · 46-50, F
[@411057,PaleandPolluted] Yeah, he sounds either very immature or dangerous. Personally, I 'd ask him to dial down or risk being blocked.
[@627992,Graylight] no my complaint is is his excessive lust legit or is he a simp...
Graylight · 46-50, F
[@411057,PaleandPolluted] well, only he knows that, but when two people approach and one suggests getting know each other over talk or coffee and the other one wants to tell me how hard his dick is, I'm always going to go with #1. Preference is all.
spjennifer · 56-60, T
He's a wanker, for real, lol!
[@605026,spjennifer] yes he is but thats amusing to me. Just don't want an insincere simp to entertain me.
spjennifer · 56-60, T
[@411057,PaleandPolluted] He'd most probably rub it raw if you even just promised to show him some titties!
[@605026,spjennifer] hes a sweet guy in many ways though.
He's avin' a lawf.
smiler2012 · 56-60, M
{@paleandpolluted] this sounds very unsettling for you when somebody comes onto you this way .my advice to you would be mute or block him . if it is a genuine mistake on his part and it was not you he meant to talk to well no harm done

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