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If your heart has ever been badly broken, did it ever heal completely?

Asking for a friend....
ScarletWitch · 26-30, F
Yes, it's broken now. But... Sw kind of helps heal me more. It's my only support now.
@ScarletWitch SW is a fun getaway right now, going through a divorce and this lets me forget about life
SW-User
It never heals completely, it does unbreak and seal though, leaving you a little bit different from who you used to be.
plungesponge · 41-45, M
lol, I knew this had to be your answer too
SW-User
Hanging2 · 51-55, M
It never heals completely. There is always scar tissue. My heart is full of scars and I would not have it any other way
Zoranna · F
Eventually ... took a long time.
Adaydreambeliever · 56-60, F
Well it healed enough for me to enjoy life and find peace.. so it's ok.. It left a scar.. and I think that's always going to be the case with something that hurts us so badly.. We can love again.. if we are willing to try.. some aren't.. But it will get to the point where it doesn't hurt so much x
SW-User
Yes my heart has been broken, completely smashed.
It is healed, but just like when you have had a badly broken bone, it still aches at times. I have to be more careful with it now...
Oneofthestormboys · 100+, M
That’s a really good analogy 😊@SW-User
Tomorrow · 56-60, F
@SW-User Yes. I think that's a perfect way to put it.
blendednotshaken · 51-55, M
a broken heart heals slowly, it scars so much more than say, a hand, but the feeling grows with care.
plungesponge · 41-45, M
A heart doesn't ever heal completely, if you meant it. You just learn to guard it better with your mind
The sooner you move on the quicker it heals.

And it can always heal if you really let go.
WelshLovely · 46-50, F
It doesn't heal back to the way it was before, but it does get better
dentope3 · M
as time goes by you learn to live with the pain but it never goes away
SeductiveCactus · 26-30, F
Yes. And yes. Fucked me up big tome at the time tho
Cantsayno · 56-60, M
It may sound silly. But it took me over 20 years until I reconnected with her on Facebook. Once I found out she thought of me as much as I did of her. I was finally able to heal.
Tomorrow · 56-60, F
@Cantsayno Believe it or not, I get that. It happened exactly like that with my first love.
Cantsayno · 56-60, M
Sometimes it takes to time to heal. Concentrate on yourself and you’ll get there. @Tomorrow
Tomorrow · 56-60, F
Thanks.
Oneofthestormboys · 100+, M
Yes it did, but every experience changed me, some for the better, some for the worse. I think we all build mental walls when we’re hurt. I certainly did...
SW-User
Yes, it has.. took a long time but now I have insecurities which are not healthy so I feel incapable of loving anyone ever again.
Tomorrow · 56-60, F
@SW-User I'm sorry. That sounds terribly lonely. Loneliness is awful. :(
LyricalOne · F
A broken heart never heals completely. Best we can hope for is that it gets easier to live with as we move forward in life.
indyjoe · 56-60, M
Yes it does, but as with all wounds it can leave scars that can remain sensitive for a long time (even for life).
Tomorrow · 56-60, F
@indyjoe Yes. Seems to be the case.
SW-User
Yes. I throught I’d not survive it. It did heal but scars are still there. I’m all the wiser tho.
Tryingtomoveforward · 36-40, M
I do not know, But mine is broken and doesn't feel like it will heal.
ZonkeyBalls · 46-50, M
Yes. Took a few years, but new problems can easily replace older ones.
SunshineJ · 41-45, F
Sort of but it took me am while to feel better.
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