So she's coming to see me tomorrow
The one I've posted about, the one who I've invested 15 years in, the one who left me adrift and broken. She's there to pick up a surplus of mail: do I try and win her back?
46-50, F
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plungesponge · 41-45, M
...never throw good money after bad. If someone leaves you adrift, you go looking for friendlier seas.
If they come back one day, that's very nice, but I wouldn't spend energy on someone who wasn't willing to do the same - it's too exhausting.
If they come back one day, that's very nice, but I wouldn't spend energy on someone who wasn't willing to do the same - it's too exhausting.
Cavedweller · 46-50, F
@updown2020: she said that she needed a year to sort through some stuff: and that at the end of said year we'd have a regroup.
updown2020 · 61-69, M
Well it was let's take a break for a year and see what happens? Well sorry that is not right people cannot play around with your head like that. Oh okay what do you want?
Cavedweller · 46-50, F
I want her.I can't throw away 15 years.
updown2020 · 61-69, M
@Cavedweller: Well maybe you cannot throw away 15 years but it seems she was thinking about it well actually did it for a year. Have you been talking within that year?
SW-User
No. I agree with plunges... you don't have to think negatively of them... but that was long ago and the time has passed... don't do this to yourself.
updown2020 · 61-69, M
Well how long ago did she leave?
Cavedweller · 46-50, F
Four months ago.
updown2020 · 61-69, M
@Cavedweller: Oh well have you talked within that four month? Why did she leave? I would say go slowly let her pick up her mail and maybe offer coffee and chat if she wants to and take it from there. There is a reason why she left so go slow. And how do you know she has not moved on and she's just coming for the mail. Try not to put more into this than it is you could be setting yourself up for more heart ack. But I could be wrong you know her better.
OrangeLettuce · 46-50, F
No run as far as u can ..u r worth more
Yes we can only try
TheCunylinguist · 51-55, F
No. She will hurt you more