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Do you agree that you shouldn't get into a relationship until you can love/accept yourself?

I used to think that was BS but now I couldn't agree more
MrBrownstone · 41-45, M
starrybunny · 26-30, F
Yes. Because if you depend on someone else for self love and they leave you, you're gonna hate yourself more lol its common sense
I think to be happy in a relationship, you have to be happy on your own and set 'me time' so you don't get too wrapped into the relationship.
Adelh91 · 26-30, F
This is perfect! Hit the nail right on the head
wudifu · 41-45, M
NigelDoes · 51-55, M
Hell yeah.
nedkelly · M
You should not get into another relationship if you are married
Ambroseguy80 · 51-55, M
Hahahahah. Dang
SteelHands · 61-69, M
Accepting yourself, sure. I'm not all that sure if self love is really an actual thing or if it's just being confused with self respect. Self love sounds a bit narcissistic and smug.
SW User
I absolutely agree. You would only bring misery to the other.
Ambroseguy80 · 51-55, M
I can speak from experience that weak self-esteem can drag down a relationship. :(
SW User
@Ambroseguy80: @Ambroseguy80: It will take a relationship to hell and back. I have taken a lot of things...but low self esteem is not one that I could deal with in a spouse...And I feel for anyone that has too.
Ambroseguy80 · 51-55, M
@DixieChick: yes pretty much, thank you, my friend!!! 😘
Maggimay · 41-45, F
Sometimes the right person helps you accept yourself. With love. Love doesnt happen. Lust happens. Love grows. True love grows with someone.
SW User
@Maggimay: Oh..okay...sorry.. Feel better honey! :)
Maggimay · 41-45, F
@DixieChick: 😘
SW User
@Maggimay: 😍😘
taehyun · 18-21, F

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