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Do you think if your partner in the bed is lying the opposite way towards you do you think its a sign of cheating or having an affair

When there not cuddled up next to each other
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Thevy29 · 36-40, M
riseofthemachine · 36-40, M
[@622125,Thevy29] that's what I'm thinking 😂😂😂
alongalone · M
No not us but she does do that I dont mind. her bed is nice but don't sleep there much..
No. You don't need to be constantly cuddling and touching to be a caring and happy couple.

a) it gets too hot
b) you can't move freely as you sleep
c) it really just isn't necessary. There is such a thing as too much of a good thing
d) some people just don't want to be touched constantly
No. And if you don’t trust your partner (because [b]that’s[/b] what it amounts to), why stay with them ? 😩
riseofthemachine · 36-40, M
[@328496,bijouxbroussard] I've a very suspicious mind and rightly so , I stayed and when it was over all I got was pain
[@967456,riseofthemachine] But that’s what I’m saying. While you can’t control someone else’s behavior, you can control whether or not you stick around. There’s no point in staying with someone you don’t trust.
riseofthemachine · 36-40, M
[@328496,bijouxbroussard] thank you that's all I wanted to know . Your a star 😊😊😊.
exexec · 61-69, C
Nope. In fact, when she was with other men, she was even more lovey-dovey with me.
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
I’m reading your replies and now your post here and I’m wondering if you need constant attention and validation. What if they just lay the other way because they don’t want to smell farts? I mean it could happen…..does that mean the person who turns away from the farts is cheating?????
riseofthemachine · 36-40, M
[@11509,Keepitsimple] I'm single 😂😂😂😂😂 and no I'm not controlling or no I'm not insecure , but your right about the attention thing .
It happened me before with a person and I found out she was cheating . It's even wrong of me saying that to you cause it's in the past and I've no bad thoughts about her , but I be afraid it would happen again
riseofthemachine · 36-40, M
[@11509,Keepitsimple] your up to something cause your on the defense 😂😂😂. Or else you have a problem with men 😂😂😂. Your not the only person with 6th sense 😂😂😂
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
[@967456,riseofthemachine] Nope and you know what? I don’t even ask my husband where he was or what he was doing. I’m not his babysitter or warden.
How is anyone going to fall asleep like that? I need to move around, when I'm cuddling I can't move or it'll disturb them.
why think so much
riseofthemachine · 36-40, M
[@1019539,mysteryespresso] I dont know how to stop thinking too much , that's my problem
DrWatson · 61-69, M
Maybe it's just a matter of getting sore limbs from lying one way for a prolonged period, and needing to move around.

And as for cuddling, it's great for a while, but I have what I call the "three arm theory": in the long run, at most three of your four arms will be comfortable! That has been our experience anyway, so we have always had to keep shifting positions.
HermannFegelein · 22-25, M
Maybe they’re feeling hot? That’d be my guess. I mean I’d really rather not be hugging someone in bed if it’s getting hot. Their body is producing heat. I think some people read to much into these things.
1954zebedee · 61-69, M
No. They're simply more comfortable!
theramengirl · 26-30, C
I would think those things, but I know that those are just irrational fears. Still, I prefer to cuddle and feel close to someone.
theramengirl · 26-30, C
[@967456,riseofthemachine] Thank you, thank you, I was a comedienne in my past life!
riseofthemachine · 36-40, M
[@823949,theramengirl] how long were you doing that for ? Had you much shows going on
theramengirl · 26-30, C
[@967456,riseofthemachine] Um, I had a long career spanning over 3 minutes. lol

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