My girlfriend is 36 and I'm 21. She'd like a baby but I just feel it's too early for me. Should we break up?

Move on. You two are at totally places in life. Seldom does that work.

The worst reason to have a child is because somebody else wants you to.

Her clock is ticking but a child is a serious lifelong commitment..
Unless you're in a strong financial position and your education and career are on track..
Probably better to wait

Ask yourself.....is one cum worth paying child support for...for the next 18 years and maybe 25 if the kid goes to college??

Not much of a choice, is it?

Probably, If You’re goals do not align. Your dreams and desires don’t work together. If your not looking to be the dad.

She’s greedy, She already has a 21 yo baby

What the fuck are u doing dating someone 15 years older than u? Not surprised she wants a kid but u need to fuck around a bit... fucking grow up! Let her be & don't kick off... spilt up & u fuck around & let her have a kid if she wants to...

Don’t have a baby!!!!EVER!!!!

Your relationship isn't going to last. Would you really want to bring a child into the world if you knew for a fact you wouldn't be with this woman 10 years down the road?

Have you told her this? Talk to her about this and that will give you both an idea of what the right thing to do is.

I think so... As someone before said, you are at different places in you life, and you have different drives and desires

If you’re not 100% on board, get 100% out of the way. You are so so young and there’s so much time left to have your own kids later.

Yep , her looks will fade when you are her age and she won’t be into sex and you’ll have a child ..,🤷🏻‍♀️

Well, you guys need to figure out and discuss to each other. I met a guy who has children at 23, and his wife is 31.

If you feel like you aren't ready then let her be the one to carry the baby.

How long have you been together and how committed are you to her?

Don’t have a baby if you aren’t ready. :(

Think with your big head...not the little one.

Break up.

Run!

Yes.

Move on

Yes, because you shouldn’t make a baby until you’re ready to devote time and resources. And [b]you[/b] have more time to consider it than [b]she[/b] does. That’s the downside with such an age gap. You’re at two different points in your lives. She’s ready for children, a family; you’re just beginning your adult life, it’s too soon for you to be tied down.

Then it is a no, being a parent is a lifetime responsibility. You need to want to be one.

No. If she insists on it then leave.

Uh. Yes.

I don’t know anything else about your relationship but if you two are on opposite ends of a road in important aspects it could be a reason to end things.