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Lazy Spouse

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Is he a selfish jerk baby?
He might just be frustrated
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Just venting. Going on trip tomorrow with family to way back ancestors land.Invited hub to go. He does not work so he is free. I work alot and am not often free, wanted him to see this.
I kept telling him to wash his clothes and pack. He said he would several times but then he did not. So while I was cooking dinner I washed them so he could pack. He sulked in the living room because dinner was late 7:30p. He is currently only eating once daily so he was really hungry and told me not to cook but I had already thawed meat and poured ingredients out. After washing dishes I then fell asleep on sofa(yup I do this).
I woke to him complaining about how I'm not serious about wanting to get pregnant because I fell asleep on the sofa again and I wont rent a hotel rm while out of town.( I dont want to spend 4 night hotel fee.) My aunt has a really big house there. Then he said he needs space because I'm so frustrating and he will reconsider if going and if he goes he will sleep separately.
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Sounds vaguely familiar 😔
@SW-User I thought of you as soon as I read it lol. 😄

QueenPeach · 26-30, F
He needs to work. He clearly doesn't understand how tiring it is for you to work a lot come home cook, clean then do laundry. Ungreatful and really selfish.
Fantasyproject · 26-30, F
So he’s complaining about you not wanting to have a baby because you fell asleep on the couch and won’t get a hotel room but then complains that he needs space and wants to sleep separately?
REMsleep · 41-45, F
@Fantasyproject ikr because "I'm not serious"
Fantasyproject · 26-30, F
I feel like there’s no reason for him to be frustrated. You’re doing all the work and if your family has a big house, why not just stay there. I understand that in certain families is probably disrespectful to have sex in their home but if that’s not the case, you guys have privacy and you’re quiet, what’s the issue? Who wants to spend money if they don’t have to. He’s being childish in this situation and if he really wants you to get pregnant, he has a lot of things he needs to work out. @REMsleep
Why doesn't your husband do the dishes when you cook?
@REMsleep The bulk of the childraising work?
REMsleep · 41-45, F
@quitwhendone Yes. I travel often for my corporate job so his support is the only way it can work
@REMsleep Well, I hope it works out for you two. Good luck.
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Does your have any sought of addiction (smoking, alcohol etc)
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@REMsleep why does is not work? Is it hard to find a job? Or he lacks motivation?
REMsleep · 41-45, F
@SW-User Terrible anxiety and lack of motivation. Many promises made regarding work so now he works for me sometimes on my side business which involves him also staying out of town in a very harsh country place so he feels that's he is sacrificing "for me".
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@REMsleep Either he must have had a bad past or he is not trying to come up with some situation. If he realises that he can do lot of more and with some good efforts he can do much more better. Trust me try to understand what is there in his mind. He can change only if he wants.
So what does he do since he doesn't work? and why doesn't he work? Is he a permanent non-worker or just going through a temporary non-working period?
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Time to kick him to the curb!

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Zonuss · 41-45, M
If hes lazy then tell em to get off his butt and do something. 🙂

 
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