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Lazy Spouse

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Is he a selfish jerk baby?
He might just be frustrated
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Just venting. Going on trip tomorrow with family to way back ancestors land.Invited hub to go. He does not work so he is free. I work alot and am not often free, wanted him to see this.
I kept telling him to wash his clothes and pack. He said he would several times but then he did not. So while I was cooking dinner I washed them so he could pack. He sulked in the living room because dinner was late 7:30p. He is currently only eating once daily so he was really hungry and told me not to cook but I had already thawed meat and poured ingredients out. After washing dishes I then fell asleep on sofa(yup I do this).
I woke to him complaining about how I'm not serious about wanting to get pregnant because I fell asleep on the sofa again and I wont rent a hotel rm while out of town.( I dont want to spend 4 night hotel fee.) My aunt has a really big house there. Then he said he needs space because I'm so frustrating and he will reconsider if going and if he goes he will sleep separately.
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Does your have any sought of addiction (smoking, alcohol etc)
REMsleep · 41-45, F
@SW-User No substance addictions
SW-User
@REMsleep why does is not work? Is it hard to find a job? Or he lacks motivation?
REMsleep · 41-45, F
@SW-User Terrible anxiety and lack of motivation. Many promises made regarding work so now he works for me sometimes on my side business which involves him also staying out of town in a very harsh country place so he feels that's he is sacrificing "for me".
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@REMsleep Either he must have had a bad past or he is not trying to come up with some situation. If he realises that he can do lot of more and with some good efforts he can do much more better. Trust me try to understand what is there in his mind. He can change only if he wants.