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Do you think it's worth trying in a relationship after one partner has been unfaithful?

Can it still work?
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EugenieLaBorgia · F
There will always be doubt.
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SW-User
@EugenieLaBorgia Yeah... That's what I've been dealing with for years after.
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FurryFace · 61-69, M
@EugenieLaBorgia yeah checking out other halves cell phone in the washroom
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EugenieLaBorgia · F
@SW-User In my opinion, faithfulness and trust should work on all levels and not just one. In a field of conflict, if trust is betrayed, many often die because of it. In civilian life, what trust is it that can be so easily broken by having a casual fling with a bimbo.
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canusernamebemyusername · M
It can work. But the question is are they going to do it again?
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MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
@canusernamebemyusername the question also is if you can handle it.
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Pherick · 41-45, M
I think its really a tough decision and a very personal one. It depends on the people involved, the level of unfaithfulness, the relationship they have.

I have seen it work out for people, I have seen it fail horribly. Just depends.
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luctoretemergo · 61-69, M
Trust is irreplaceable.....
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DrScissorhands
If it’s a relationship of convenience, sure
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BlueRain · F
Nope. Once a cheat, always a cheat.
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Spoiledbrat · F
How would we know what works for other people. When people cheat, their relationship was probably already over in the first place. So the problem is not even the cheating. The cheating is the result of the problem.
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PhoenixPhail · M
It CAN still work. And if the one who was unfaithful does honest and sincere work on him or herself, it can be even better. It can become part of the intimacy.
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DarlingSelah ·
Lots of people make it work. Personally, I find it impossible to be with a man i dont respect. Theres something so immature & pathetic about cheating.
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SW-User
Of course it can if that couple is willing to work on it.
But once the mirror has broken...
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SW-User
I know couples who are still together after known infidelities.
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eMortal · M
Don't worry about a man cheating on you. If he still loves you can choose to live with it.
How do you know he still loves? Just pay attention to the little signs. Does he care about? Does he have your back when you're not paying attention. Does he support you?
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Spoiledbrat · F
No no and nope. @eMortal
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exexec · 61-69, C
Yes, people change, but there are limits.
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PuppetOnStrings
Yes.
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Eternity · 26-30, M
No
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Spoiledbrat · F
🙄
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caccoon · 36-40
It can, but it would require a lot of work and rebuilding. You have to weigh whether it's really worth it... I'd wager on most cases, it is definitely not worth trying to fix.
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MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
My parents are still together after 25 years. We've had major lengthy consequences, but its going.
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