can anyone help me?

I have doubt problem with my wife. I always doubt on her. I always think she cheating me behind me even i didn't find and clue and proof. I know she love me only but i don't know why it's happning.

Please help me to i get out from it, and i stop doubt on her.

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SW-User

All I will say, my one partner did cheat on me, and it took me starting the conversation and then her sharing, she did. But that doesn't mean that is what is going on for you. And it could also be your own paranoia, insecurity. So unless you are willing to actually have a conversation together with her (which if it's truly your insecurity, may not go well) talk to someone professionally, and maybe do anyway.

wakanda4eva · 26-30, F

@SW-User I think he did already through the suspicion of whatsapp message with another guy, but Im not quite sure.

wakanda4eva · 26-30, F

https://similarworlds.com/9-Health/2689961-Missed-Period-but-no-pregnancy-My-wife-has-missed

U said ur wife has a missed period but no pregnancy, is she still missing her period and thats why ur doubting that she may have cheated?

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wakanda4eva · 26-30, F

@donut how long have ur been together. U said something in 2017 that u made a mistake that caused a long term relationship to fall apart. Then 1 month later asking for girls to skype. Not that its really related to ur relationship issue, sorry if its an ivasion of personal privacy but Did u find her through skype?

U must be really obsessed with tekken 7, been talking a lot about it since u started here xD

wakanda4eva · 26-30, F

@donut what did she do when confrontd with the messages with another guy? How did u find out? What were the messages about?

donut · 26-30, M

@wakanda4eva please ask me anything in the inbox. i can tell you everything there

helenS · 36-40, F

If this is ruining your marriage, please go seek [u]professional[/u] help, perhaps together with your wife. Do not listen to any amateurish "advice" on here, or any other public forum.

SW-User

@helenS Best with his wife if they can find it together, professionally. Even if his mistrust is based nowhere, I can't imagine it's not a marital issue also that needs actual conversation together.

helenS · 36-40, F

@SW-User Yes.

SW-User

I agree with the other reply. You need to speak to a counselor and try to address whatever it is that's making you feel that way.

SStarfish ·

She's probly cheating on you then.. Proceed accordingly (divorce and all)

ShaythePanTransMan · 22-25, T

Find a couple therapist.

Roadsterrider · 56-60, M

Best advice is to see a couples counselor. Don't let anything blind you to the truth. I have been cheated on, sometimes evidence of infidelity is easy to see, sometimes we manufacture it.

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