Would you reconsider dating someone

@Mindful That is now something that comes down to what you want. If his lack of resources affect you, you might want to cut it short.

Affects me a little. For as much as I support him it bothered me that he just left us alone. @SW-User

@Mindful Talk to him.

Harry Rides the Guru Bus@SW-User

I made a list. I found in it something I had not realized was a semi serious problem. I ended up sharing THAT problem with him first and then the most recent ones. We clarified our interpretations, he helped me see what he saw and heard, we even laughed at the way he reacted to the hailstorm —based on some clever advice someone had given him earlier that day—Park your car under a brick car wash . The other issues are issues but he’s accepted and made some promises to improve. He pointed out the positives in our relationship and offered me a percentage of the company he is starting which I am not accepting at this time but it made me feel more valued that he offerred. He expressed deep gratitude and offered apologies.He responded in ways that made me calm down that’s hard to do. Lol thank you for your advice [@idolovemostofyourthoughts]@SW-User

@Mindful I'm truly glad I was able to be of some assistance but I'm really very very happy you took the bull by the horns and chose the right way of handling things and, he responded in a positive way! Communication really is the key. Congratulations! 🤗

No. He left the house (and us) to outrun/avoid hail damage before the hailstorm at 1 A.M. @Jackaloftheazuresand

To avoid a hailstorm, not during the storm@DeWayfarer

@Mindful I would have found some place close to just wait it out like a gas station or some place with a cover. Hailstorms usually don't last that long. Then come back.

Okay, thanks@DeWayfarer

@Mindful asking him to sacrifice his car is odd behavior. Driving in tornadoes is odd behavior. But I thing last night wasn't odd behavior unless a to tornado came and put you in harm then that would have been very selfish.

All that you say is true. I I think it was all an unknown considering the level of threat for this storm. It was all very odd to me. It took me my surprise that he left, and as I talk it out here, I’m realizing that there are other things that upset me more.so this is just a splinter added to something bigger.@abe182

@Mindful Thanks Abe, for responding. It’s important to know other people’s point of view so that I am aware of my own reactions as well as his. He and I talked and he had taken. 3 Advil at bedtime and simply woke up thinking about me being safe and following advice he had gotten that day on how to save his car from hail damage:park at a car wash bay.

No he woke up suddenly because of thunderstorms he then put on his pants to drive off and avoid hail storm. 2 years ago hail was bad enough it went thru roofs and into the houses and put holes in cars@VeronicaPrincess

Turns out he had takes 3 Advil and was following advice he had heard earlier on how to avoid hail damage@VeronicaPrincess

He drove his car to another town and left us alone while he waited out the hail@Noblety

@Mindful that's very strange. Something seems off.

I agree. @Noblety

Yes. It’s my house. I wasn’t going to leave.@InOtterWords

@Mindful but the point is you were safe from harm from the storm

I can take care of myself. I can handle disaster out. Yes, if the hail had put holes in my roof as it did in other cities, I would have been able to take care of myself and my daughter and kept us safe. It’s weird to me that he would not have been any help. @InOtterWords