How do you find someone to date when you don't go out to bars/clubs and you don't have much luck with online dating?

Get involved in group activities you enjoy.

Like joining a hiking club or volunteering.

That's been MY question.
I don't know. My thing is to just be authentic with people, that is, without the dating agenda driving me to satisfy all the criteria. I don't find may people who want to do it that way. So, I just stay home a lot.

I've been wondering that too. I would like to start dating but how? Lol. Ugh. Meeting guys is hard.

Cafes can be a place to meet people. Any activity that you enjoy that can be made into a social group (hobby clubs ....) I'm sure there must be other ways.

Maybe there is someone in your inner circle of friends. Maybe a friend of a friend.

By pimping out your Cheerios?

Go to local singles events

Wish I could find the secret...

I've been wondering the same thing.

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