How do you find someone to date when you don't go out to bars/clubs and you don't have much luck with online dating?

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That's been MY question.
I don't know. My thing is to just be authentic with people, that is, without the dating agenda driving me to satisfy all the criteria. I don't find may people who want to do it that way. So, I just stay home a lot.