If a guy says he's got crazy exes on the first date, would you go on a second date with him?

I feel like every time men say that they’re usually the cause for the “craziness” in these ex’s and a lot of the time the ex’s aren’t even really crazy they’re just assholes who shit talks women who still have feelings for them.

Plural? No, because either a) he is attracted to crazy, which is drama I don't need or b) he did some shit to make them crazy.

Sounds like a lack of empathy and self awareness.

It's odd to be talking about each other's exes on a first day regardless isn't it?

Doesn't everyone say all their exes are crazy?

Nope. Check please.

That's not exactly someone's fault they have crazy exes...but I would wonder why all were crazy or was it just them that was the issue?

You should consider it if, and only if:
1 There's some sort of club of his crazy exes, cause you're bound to join
2 the club offers discount coupons for Walmart/Tesco/wherever-earthlings-shop-nowadays

If it's a natural part of the conversation it's a non issue.... Everyone has those.

Of he just three it out there randomly then wave the red flag.

I'd be very concerned. Blaming exes is never a good sign.

If I was a woman or gay, it would be very concerning.

Reversing the situation, if a woman said she had crazy exes, it would still be very concerning.

You never know what those exes are thinking of, whether or not they might come after you and make your life hell, etc. I'd probably would still go on a second date though.

surely.. the guy with 1000 crazy ex's, isnt the common denominator?.. say it aint so..

Yeah, that's not a good sign.

If I were a woman no way hypothetically speaking

How many crazy exes? One maybe two, okay. If all our most of his exes are crazy I'd be thinking maybe he's the cause...

in this day and age of social media, i don't understand why anyone would date someone they haven't interacted with in some sort of way online first..I'm not in the market, but, if i were, i think that's how i would approach it..am i wrong?

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