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What would you in this relationship situation?

Girl broke up with her ex about 2 months ago... you start a relationship with her... few weeks later she discovers she is pregnant with her ex's child and she tells you about it.

What would you do? 🤔
Whew !!! what a toughy.......at 2 months - as much as I hate to say this...she has time yo make a decision whether she wants it or not. But not a lot of time. 2 months is time for people to fall in love........but not know it......
The 'biological father has 'some' obligation - but that would be financial - and then the rest is worked out by her. But the only thing to do in this situation is to wing it !!! I mean really - who knows what happens tomorrow - "the best laid plans of mice and men" and all that.
Life is so uncertain.......how can we be.? All you can give her is your best....and thats all any one can ever offer .
Tastyfrzz · 61-69, M
Question is, does she want the child? Does her ex want the child?
Can she support the child? Do they still have a thing for each other? The new person getting involved here has no obligations to the child but may have a strong sense of compassion. I think the new person needs to step back a bit and let the child's parents figure things out or it's going to get really messy.
PotPrincess1 · 36-40, M
Leave her. Ain’t got time for that 🤣
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iMystery · M
@MalteseFalconPunch She left her ex 2 months ago... you started a relationship with her some time after her break up and a few weeks later discover she is pregnant with his child.
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Rokasu · 36-40, M
That’s pretty not bueno. Even if I knew her for a long time. 2 months is a long time to notice you’re pregnant.

Sure I’d be supportive but just like protecting yourself from STDs, you gotta wrap it up if you forget the pill for a day.
I'd let her go.
She'd need the space to figure out her next move, my presence would complicate that. She should with her ex handle their situation. They deserve a chance at making a family.
StokedFox · 36-40, F
Be her friend but let her figure that out herself
iMystery · M
@StokedFox True... friends would imply the relationship ends...

There are many other possible complications which arises from being in a relationship with someone who has a kid with someone else...

I know... personal experience...
StokedFox · 36-40, F
@iMystery yes, I am a single mom with a four year old son. I have been treated like shit because of it. But I look at my son and think, I don't need anyone else or their bullshit. I don't have any drama and my kids a well adjusted sweetheart, if no one will accept us that's just fine.
iMystery · M
@StokedFox That is exactly what I mean
coary987 · M
Depends on how much you love her.
iMystery · M
@coary987 Lol this is NOT about me lol
coary987 · M
@iMystery o sorry lol
iMystery · M
@coary987 Lol I can see how many would assume that its about myself lol
Aydao · 26-30, M
support her if you really love her,if she doesn't want the child,idk abortion?
Rutterman · 46-50, M
I'd terminate the relationship.
iMystery · M
@Rutterman I could understand why.

 
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