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Magenta · F
No, it's typically never been my MO.
Making a mental note to never forget is holding a grudge, imo.
Making a mental note to never forget is holding a grudge, imo.
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Magenta · F
@SW-User Hmm not sure I agree.
I also see a lot of victim mentality in society, as if those people that flubbed up are evil and we are saints.
I also see a lot of victim mentality in society, as if those people that flubbed up are evil and we are saints.
SW-User
@Magenta [c=002673]You don't agree that it's ok to learn from our mistakes and be cautious?? That's all I was saying.[/c]
Magenta · F
@SW-User Yes, I agree with that.
CookieCrumbs · F
Seeking revenge has never been a practice.
If someone has done me wrong, I move on, remove any trace of them in my life like they never existed. They don’t get another chance to hurt me again.
If someone has done me wrong, I move on, remove any trace of them in my life like they never existed. They don’t get another chance to hurt me again.
Trippin · F
@CookieCrumbs Amen ❤
SW-User
If the opportunity presents itself I’m totally vindictive enough to take it 🤣
Trippin · F
@SW-User Oooo... You a..."catch me outside" chick perhaps?
SW-User
@Trippin more like would stick my foot out as they walk past 🤣
Trippin · F
@SW-User ❤
PerfectionOfTheHeart · 46-50, F
Revenge requires energy and attention that someone who’s wronged you no longer deserves. I echo what Rooster shared…walk away and forget they existed to you and when they do make that humble journey back onto your path…happens so very often…keep on walking in the direction you choose for a wiser you and you’ll discover something exists that’s even greater than any revenge you could have thought possible.
cherokeepatti · 61-69, F
@PerfectionOfTheHeart yeah and it takes time out of your life to plot and work revenge. Sounds like enough that has already been wasted on the person.
PerfectionOfTheHeart · 46-50, F
@cherokeepatti Bingo.
Coisty · 51-55, M
NEVER FORGET
Gangstress · 41-45, F
exactly mate @Coisty
ImRileyTheDog · 22-25, F
Probably more of a mental note and forget because I don’t care to waste time and effort on revenge
Trippin · F
@ImRileyTheDog Good for the heart.
summersong · F
I don’t seek revenge but I’m also not sad when there is karmic retribution
Trippin · F
@summersong Haha... Indeed. Might " not sad" sometimes mean just a bit of sly smile when you hear the news... 😎
Magenta · F
@summersong Oh yes.
SW-User
[c=002673]As revenge has a way of turning on those who use it, I choose to remember and beware.[/c]
Trippin · F
@SW-User Karma in indeed a mo' fo'.
yeronlyman · 51-55, M
For moi
Revenge isn’t top of the menu
Justice is
🤗
Revenge isn’t top of the menu
Justice is
🤗
Trippin · F
@yeronlyman A gent you remain, sir.
yeronlyman · 51-55, M
Am a believer in "waste no energy" ... forgive, fire them and move on.
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
@questionWeaver Fire them 😂
cherokeepatti · 61-69, F
Move on but don’t give them another chance.
Trippin · F
@cherokeepatti A fair conclusion. Fits you ❤
God says vengeance is mine. Do no revenge. We’re most like God in Christ when we forgive. True it’s hard to forget. Can’t expect if someone can’t forget words or actions I’ve said/done. It’s their choice. I know I’ve heard words I have trouble forgetting as well as actions. I try to let it go especially since I’m guilty. If someone asks for forgiveness, my desire is to let it go.
Lacemaker · 41-45, F
I never seek revenge. It's wasted energy on someone who's not worth it.
But I'm forever wary.
But I'm forever wary.
SW-User
I remember and move forward, that's the end of it
Trippin · F
@SW-User Boss Chick you've been since the day I was fortunate to cross your path. ❤️
SW-User
@Trippin 🤗
Trippin · F
@SW-User 🤗× a bunch. ❤
Nanori · F
Mental note, only to be remembered when I'm around that person
Keeper · M
This is why I still play hockey 😏
Darkskiescoming · 51-55, M
I don't forget. Revenge is a waste of time, what does it even prove.
Trippin · F
@Darkskiescoming Indeed. If I ever say... Im gonna just like you: It's cuz' your actions were impressive...not hurtful. 🤷♀️
TheOneyouwerewarnedabout · 41-45, MVIP
Retribution will be swift and brutal 😇
Trippin · F
TheOneyouwerewarnedabout · 41-45, MVIP
@Trippin jk. I’m a huge fan of karma. Especially if I get to witntit
Gangstress · 41-45, F
never forget
Trippin · F
@Gangstress Hugs back... Mate 😊
Gangstress · 41-45, F
@Trippin aww 💚
Trippin · F
@Gangstress 💚
Leave it to Karma.
This is what I say to those who have wronged me.
This is what I say to those who have wronged me.
BiasForAction · M
I never forget but at some point I need the power to extract revenge otherwise what’s the point of remembering ?
Trippin · F
@BiasForAction A paradox perhaps that calls in to question the validation we seek... And just how we interfere with fate in its occurrence... 🤔
BiasForAction · M
@Trippin I just want to be in charge for a bit so I can vanquish my enemies
Trippin · F
@BiasForAction I see.... Maybe like sitting in the cut while our king is safety castled.
Lilymoon · F
While the revenge thing is tempting it also requires mental energy of thinking about this wretched person.
I'd rather move on and learn from it. (most of the time) ;)
I'd rather move on and learn from it. (most of the time) ;)
Mrballs · 70-79, M
i used to take revenge but then i realized it's a waste of energy and it destroys you. i usually just move on. my revenge now is living a good life
Pretzel · 61-69, M
I honestly don't care to think of those that have done me harm in the past
Sweetpoison · 36-40, F
No revenge, i forget they exist .
Trippin · F
@Sweetpoison Indeed. The moment after ANY situation ....is the present. And who wants to tote shit? 🤷♀️
Sweetpoison · 36-40, F
@Trippin also getting revenge shows interest… they are not worth it
Reject · 26-30, M
I often forget. I can’t be bothered to waste energy on such things.
SW-User
[c=004A59]At one point yesterday I felt vengeful; today, I it's more WTH.[/c]
Strongtea · 22-25, M
Always revenge.
vetguy1991 · 51-55, M
I simply cut people out of my life
Trippin · F
@vetguy1991 I see 🤔
HannahSky · F
Revenge, no.
NerdyPotato · M
The latter.
Trippin · F
@NerdyPotato Good for your heart my friend. 🙂
MarineBob · 56-60, M
Both
Rambler · M
The latter
Freeranger · M
It's been loosely attributed to Charles Maurice de Talleyrand-Périgord that revenge is a meal best served cold....
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
I think things have a way of coming back to you eventually, good or bad.
SW-User
A lesson learned but don't care to get revenge.
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cherokeepatti · 61-69, F
@SW-User Amen….and to live a prosperous joyous life. It will eat them up.
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Trippin · F
@SW-User Amen indeed.