Do you think, lovers should be last person they chat with at night and first person they talk...

summersong · F

It should be whoever they want it to be. Rules like that seem like lack of trust.

CoffeeFirst · 56-60, F

No. Depends on bedtime schedules, etc. If there is an issue with trust, that's another issue that should be addressed.

PoetryNEmotion · F

Sounds too controlling. What does that matter? Love involves trust. Without trust, it is nothing.

SW-User

Are you dependent on each other?

LadyJ · F

No..we have friends and family in our lives too

Powderflask · 31-35, M

No. Waking my wife up at 4 am could get dangerous.

SimplyLogicalDiscipline · 36-40, F

There's no rule book

NiftyWhite · 46-50, F

Not necessarily. But if it’s a frequent and/or extended periods of time that he’s spending with someone else at those times, I might think it’s not appropriate especially if it’s another female.

rjc36 · 56-60, M

That can not always be possible but would be nice. Thinking about that special someone when you are falling asleep and when you wake up is always a good thing though.

KuroNeko · 41-45, F

Not necessarily. I think a lover that gives me rules is a concern.

SW-User

If I'm not he can find someone else to love.

Harriet03 · 41-45, F

No, it should be their spouse!!

AnonymouslyYours

Sounds idealistic.

TexChik · F

Yep ... I go to sleep in the arms of my hubby as we talk about things .., and I wake up checking to see if he’s glad to see me 😉👍🏻. I can’t imagine life I gets better than that

MrBlueGuy

Not necessarily but it does seem to work out that way.

SW-User

It's nice if it's not required..

Do you think, lovers should be last person they chat with at night and first person they talk too in morning?