Do you think, lovers should be last person they chat with at night and first person they talk too in morning?

In November she travelled out of zone of confinement to have dinner with her former boss. She never said anything or texted me
That night. Next day either. I thought she was sleeping. I had texted her just saying hi. We basically live together 20 days a month. @summersong

@Jammy idk...if I’m going out, and the person I’m with knows it, I assume they will understand if I don’t text. I don’t want to have to keep tabs on someone I’m in a relationship with, and I don’t like to feel as though they’re keeping tabs on me.

@summersong I completely agree. Problem is, she never mentioned it. Nothing. I did not know she was somewhere with someone. Hence the trust thing.

@Jammy that’s a very different question. I don’t expect to know every single thing they’re doing but I have no patience for actively hiding things like that.

That is where I find it hard. @summersong