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Should I write a letter to my Therapist when I am no longer her Client?

I'm thinking of doing this, so that way there is no damage to her professional career as a Therapist. I feel its the safest bet because I know that nothing can't come between Her and I. As much as I say that I Love Her, (in which I do), its not fair to me nor her because she has a profession to uphold. I will Miss her dearly and for how much she has helped me in my way of living and knowing that she has made me feel that I deserve to be Loved by someone, even if its not with her. I know that now. Any thoughts or opinions? Thank You

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revenant · F

She must have signed a code of ethics. Professionals and clients should not have intimate relationships. It is more for your protection than hers.
You are the vulnerable one in this relationship. You are the one who might be manipulated.
Sessions with the therapist cannot be very fruitful if romance starts to creep up.
You are more worried about her standing whilst you should be more concerned with your own wellbeing.
Therapists also should not encourage dependence. They are there to help you with your life and to become independent.
If she is a good therapist she would have inklings about your feelings towards her, don't you think ?

Well it does not mean that therapists and clients do not mingle outside sessions of course. We are all humans. Happens all the time !