What do you do when

[quote]What do you do when your boyfriend says he sometimes doesn't say things that are too nice because he doesn't want you to leave out of boredom.[/quote]

So, his idea of spicing up the moment is to assault your sense of self-esteem, and then tell you he's doing it for YOUR sake of entertainment...???

[quote]Also when he says he won't control his anger in arguments because he knows you like it? (Apparently I do).[/quote]

So, he's unleashing his darkness to intimidate you, and tells you he does this because YOU like it...???

[quote]I feel deceived.[/quote]

That is the LEAST of the emotions you should be feeling towards this man who sounds wonderfully abusive and controlling.

Here, read this, and become his victim NO MORE:

https://similarworlds.com/4764229-Im-A-People-Watcher/573646-The-Four-Elements-A-Definitive-Guide-to-Successful

You RUN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! And find a new boyfriend.

I think he is a guy who believes and probably had past experiences, where whenever he was too nice to girls, they left him for the guy who was "not too nice".

I have actually seen this happening to a close friend of mine. He is a really nice guy.. but ALL the girls he has been with left him for guys who were the opposite of what he was.

Until one day he got fed up and decided to be not so nice anymore.. and now he has been with a girl for more than a year and they have a baby together.

Maybe try to find out of this may have been the case in his past?

manipulation. I had a lot of this. Leave him that's not love..

Lmao

So he thinks you like to be yelled at and not given compliments? I'd get a new BF. You should too. *hugs*

Come on princes, you -know- you can do better.

More talking needed

dump him... now