What do you do when

Your boyfriend says he sometimes doesn't say things that are too nice because he doesn't want you to leave out of boredom. Also when he says he won't control his anger in arguments because he knows you like it? (Apparently I do). I feel deceived

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GwydionFrost · 56-60, M

[quote]What do you do when your boyfriend says he sometimes doesn't say things that are too nice because he doesn't want you to leave out of boredom.[/quote]

So, his idea of spicing up the moment is to assault your sense of self-esteem, and then tell you he's doing it for YOUR sake of entertainment...???

[quote]Also when he says he won't control his anger in arguments because he knows you like it? (Apparently I do).[/quote]

So, he's unleashing his darkness to intimidate you, and tells you he does this because YOU like it...???

[quote]I feel deceived.[/quote]

That is the LEAST of the emotions you should be feeling towards this man who sounds wonderfully abusive and controlling.

Here, read this, and become his victim NO MORE:

https://similarworlds.com/4764229-Im-A-People-Watcher/573646-The-Four-Elements-A-Definitive-Guide-to-Successful

Itsprincess · 22-25, F

@GwydionFrost I don't wanna be a victim ! He was nice to me a lot though. Thank you tho😊

GwydionFrost · 56-60, M

@Itsprincess The link I attached is to an essay I posted waaaaaaay back on EP, and brought it over here. It points out the 4 essentials to ANY successful relationship. Gives you a means to measure your own relationship to it, and see just how healthy you two are.

Itsprincess · 22-25, F

@GwydionFrost yeah I read it! So interesting and the truth. If only everyone could read that lol

GwydionFrost · 56-60, M

@Itsprincess I'm working on it. I wish I could pad the shit out of it, and release a book, and pocket the money... but truth is, I'd rather distill it shorter, and focus even more on the elements, and the dynamic play between them.

Itsprincess · 22-25, F

You could actually make money out of that I'm telling you👀 Fair enough tho😊