What do you do when

Your boyfriend says he sometimes doesn't say things that are too nice because he doesn't want you to leave out of boredom. Also when he says he won't control his anger in arguments because he knows you like it? (Apparently I do). I feel deceived

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iMystery · M

I think he is a guy who believes and probably had past experiences, where whenever he was too nice to girls, they left him for the guy who was "not too nice".

I have actually seen this happening to a close friend of mine. He is a really nice guy.. but ALL the girls he has been with left him for guys who were the opposite of what he was.

Until one day he got fed up and decided to be not so nice anymore.. and now he has been with a girl for more than a year and they have a baby together.

Maybe try to find out of this may have been the case in his past?