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I Believe That Love Comes Unexpectadly

Please Give Me Your Opinion... There is no doubt that I am afraid of commitment..I have worked long and hard for what little i have accomplished. It is scary to me to give it all up considering the divorce rate..I ran across this online and thought it summed up exactly what many of us feel..Please give me your opinion...

“When someone is available and decent,” Page explains, “something inside us knows [this person] can get to our nest, our soul — the place where we care the most and can be hurt the most. And our unconscious gets panicked.” If you find yourself breaking up with someone awesome for no good reason, check yourself; you might be acting out of fear. After all, real love is a big deal. It involves a leap of faith, and that can be a scary thing. Those who give in to the Wave fall out of love before they even give themselves a chance to fall properly in love, and that’s kind of sad.

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OkCountryBoy

I also think women have a better intuition about the emotional side of their lives than men do.
But both men and women can get that state of panic feeling when things start to get good, fear takes over as you have indicated. And worse yet some men can not be in touch with their emotions and not engage the woman in her emotional mode of communication..So there is an inability of the man to communicate on the level a woman needs. My guess is that women can see the lack of communication when it is evident to them.. The last one to find out and hear about it is the man.. And he still might be clueless about how to respond.. Men often talk about facts and not feelings.. plans and advice.. not responses to the woman's emotional mindset.. Not a melding of the male and female mind and heart.