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I Believe That Love Comes Unexpectadly

Please Give Me Your Opinion... There is no doubt that I am afraid of commitment..I have worked long and hard for what little i have accomplished. It is scary to me to give it all up considering the divorce rate..I ran across this online and thought it summed up exactly what many of us feel..Please give me your opinion...

“When someone is available and decent,” Page explains, “something inside us knows [this person] can get to our nest, our soul — the place where we care the most and can be hurt the most. And our unconscious gets panicked.” If you find yourself breaking up with someone awesome for no good reason, check yourself; you might be acting out of fear. After all, real love is a big deal. It involves a leap of faith, and that can be a scary thing. Those who give in to the Wave fall out of love before they even give themselves a chance to fall properly in love, and that’s kind of sad.
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Harley52
Real love IS a scary thing. Especially if you have been through some bad experiences. It only makes it more terrifying. Just remember, if it is true love....well, that is truly a wonderful gift. We can only hope to experience it and know when to grasp it tightly so as to not let it escape. And I can say that I think you have accomplished a lot. More than you truly think. You shouldn't have to give it up. And that commitment works both ways......and so does the love.
akindheart · 61-69, F
my sweet man..there are many reasons why i adore you..you touch my nest..
Harley52
And you touch my heart. Thank you my sweet lady.