How does one ask for attention in a productive way?

I'm mostly asking this question for future reference.

I have more or less just dealt with my ups and downs alone. I find it really easy to be there for other people, but I have a really hard time asking for help.

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Fauxmyope2 · 26-30, F

It’s okay to ask for help. Find someone that you trust and respect. Be straight forward.

SW-User

@Fauxmyope2 I'll try! Thanks for the advice! Easier said than done in those moods, but I appreciate you!

Fauxmyope2 · 26-30, F

@SW-User You’re welcome!

StokedFox · 36-40, F

Just ask

Miram · 31-35, F

Same.
Asking for help gives others as much chance for growth and productivity as you though. They are learning to share, work collectively, love, see the vulnerable you and accept it..

SW-User

@Miram I know! This was really helpful. Thanks!

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Miram · 31-35, F

@Pianist1234 Wtf you are talking about? He stated it is easy for him to help others so that implies he already does stuff.

Most of you guys type n'importe quoi. 🙄

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SW-User

I don't feel shy if I need help at work or if I am stuck on a road. I can't ask for help from my lover that he must stay coz I will be miserable without him. I always let them go and never look back..sorry not sure if I answered your Qs

puck61

Do something productive that gets attention?

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