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I Believe Friendship Is A Two Way Street

Attachment issues. I really like talking to people, making friends. But, I only seem to attract people who are fleeting, who dont want to stay or form any kind of attachments.I have lost people I thought are my best friends, people who promised to stay. I am another fix right now. The closest thing I have to best friend right now, well, they think I shouldnt get to attached to them. While it was OK for while, I have started getting attached. I need to stop, but I cant seem to be able to. I need some serious help.

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Tatsumi · 31-35, M

You state the solution, yourself. Friendship is a two way street. You have to give them enough value to want to stick around. But, even then, you have to compete with other things of value in their life.

As for what to do with this person, I dunno. You'll have to find out what's best for you, then find a way to make that happen.