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Are you against feminism, why?

Im baffled with how many people are against feminism. I want to understand why, anyone that wants to discuss the topic(hopefully in a friendly manner) I'd prefer you to pm me but it's ok to comment too.
CountScrofula · 41-45, M Best Comment
Most people who are against feminism don't care to really understand what it's about.

Burnley123 · 41-45, M
There is a lot of anti-feminism on the internet because the there are a lot of men on the internet who are not having sex with women. They talk to each other and find convenient political justifications for their life circumstances.

There. I said it.
QuixoticSoul · 41-45, M
@Burnley123 That's also an easy stereotype, though. Plenty of people embrace anti-feminism even though they are getting laid, for a number of reasons.

The incel types are a whole separate brand of special.
Burnley123 · 41-45, M
@QuixoticSoul Well yeah, there are a lot of reasons why people are anti-feminist but I mean come on, there is a reason why it's so much bigger and angrier in online politics than IRL.
SW-User
I think some feminists take it to a negative level of male hating. No one wants to be hated for something they can't help like gender. Hence the negative reactions.
attaboy · 22-25
@SW-User Yes, but due to that some take it too far, that doesnt make what they do feminism
SW-User
@attaboy I agree it isn't. Which is why its misconstrued. True feminism isn't about hating men..its about loving yourself and allowing no limitations to be put on yourself due to your gender. Im a humanist. Gender means nothing to me...all people not just one gender.
NickiHijab · F
They’re not against feminism, they’re against what they [i]think[/i] is feminism
I’m an old-school feminist from when it meant equal rights and opportunities for women. Equality, not supremacy. That goal is still relevant, especially for women in non-Western countries. From my perspective, anti-feminists are anti-woman: men who hate women and women who hate themselves.
attaboy · 22-25
@bijouxbroussard Thats still what it is, just that some people, extremists, claims it to be something else
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QuixoticSoul · 41-45, M
@starrybunny [quote]if a statistic points that there are more women than men in a workfield, they will consider it a 'triumph of women'[/quote]It depends on the context. Quite often, feminists are uncomfortable with that sort of inequality because it demonstrates that something has become "women's work". Few are triumphant with the fact that women dominate nursing, for example.
Pherick · 41-45, M
@starrybunny You keep using the word "feminists" and I don't think you understand what it means. As @attaboy has tried to explain, are their women who claim to be feminists and hate men? Of course, but that doesn't mean they are the majority opinion of the movement.

Every group or movement has its outliers, and you show your ignorance but making fun of someone trying to point that out. "Cackle" away if you like, it doesn't make you look intelligent or even remotely correct.
PUBGGuy · 36-40
Mmm... I'm for equality and I don't think true equality has a name.
QuixoticSoul · 41-45, M
@PUBGGuy Lmao come on dude.
PUBGGuy · 36-40
QuixoticSoul · 41-45, M
@PUBGGuy There are just multiple layers of naiveté at work here.

You are not an island, and do not control everything that happens in your life. Your children are not going to be superhumans, and both luck and their environment will play a huge role in how things turn out for them as well - as for all of us.

I suspect (or hope) that when/if you have daughters, you'll take a closer look at how society impacts their lives.
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SW-User
I'm all for equal opportunity, whether it's gender or race, I'm against forcing poor substanded, incapable and farcical appointments to make a point.
attaboy · 22-25
@SW-User I feel the same way, but me and the ones in my surrounding say we are feminists. We are just very clear with saying that we are not like the extremists and all we want is equality. Not hate, not for any gender
SW-User
@attaboy Thats admirable, maybe rebranding may be an idea, certainly most associate feminism with radical extremist ideas, its unfortunate. There are few women making the distinction. When Germaine Greer (possibly the most renound and respected femenist in modern times) commented on the #metoo movement she was generally ignored. Interesting indeed on what is driving this current discontent.
attaboy · 22-25
@SW-User Yes, I totally agree
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attaboy · 22-25
@MalteseFalconPunch A lot of people in general
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getmeouttahere · 36-40, F
I don’t really know anymore. I’m against some of it. I disagree on abortion. I think there are reasons women make less on average. Probably more I can’t recall at the moment. I think a lot of them are being dramatic, especially the ones who make money off of talking about it.
getmeouttahere · 36-40, F
@attaboy I really don’t want to associate myself with it. Too many crazies.
attaboy · 22-25
@getmeouttahere Yeah, but I think that its wrong. That such an originally well intended movement, due to some extremists have ruined the name and people shy away from a movement, people who define by a movement that wants people to grow up feeling safe and knowing they have the same tools to have a life where they are being respected and have secure enviroment
getmeouttahere · 36-40, F
@attaboy that’s 2018 for ya! Hahaha
RaemaSnr · 22-25, F
Im not against it, but people in it can be much. In every movement there are extremists... i dont like the people who come and try convince aggresiviely than stating their opinion respectfully and not all of them are okay with it if someone else disagrees.
attaboy · 22-25
@RaemaSnr Yes, but the extremists shouldnt define the whole movement when they are the minority
RaemaSnr · 22-25, F
@attaboy sadly thats the way it is
RaemaSnr · 22-25, F
But i agree with u
sighmeupforthat · 46-50, M
no.

i'm for female rights.


no matter how many make fun of me for supporting that cause.

seems if i support women's right that makes me evil, stupid and that it's a betrayal of my own gender.


well, those types can go fuck themselves.
attaboy · 22-25
@sighmeupforthat Yep, just because you support the solution of a problem doesnt make you forget about other problems. Just bcuz ur for womens rights doesnt mean you are a man hater
SW-User
generally creating problems where there aren't any is a bad thing. solving problems that exist is a good thing.
The only feminists I see are the ones in cringe compilations lol and they are annoying af 😂

But in general I’m not against it.
Im neither for nor against it

Im traditional..
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AnonymousJSS · 22-25, F
@Fernie LOL nice way to say I’m right. Have a good life.
@AnonymousJSS You aren't, though. You don't know your history and I can understand why it's frustrating to have to explain it.
SirEldridge · 31-35, M
@bijouxbroussard I never said it was unnecessary. And I never said my opinions on the subject. I do however believe the statements made that I replied to are more damaging to equality than good
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