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Have you ever forgiven someone that’s completely betrayed your trust?

How easy was it for you and how long did it take?
SW-User
Once trust is gone it's hard to get back.
@SW-User so true
I forgive...not always easy, but I don’t forget
Bratt · F
Forgiveness sets you
free.
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Bratt · F
SW-User
@Bratt dont forgive assholes. you'll live to regret it
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
That doesn’t happen when my trust is betrayed. I write those people off.
Fauxmyope2 · 26-30, F
My former fiancé cheated six weeks after he asked me to marry him. I have not forgiven him,don’t trust him, and never want to see him or hear from him ever again.
Fauxmyope2 · 26-30, F
@ImperialAerosolKidFromEP Everyone tells me that I dodged a bullet. I still hurt though.
@Fauxmyope2 of course it did. It did for me too (again and again and again). In the end, the only woman I tied the knot with is the best woman I could ever have
Fauxmyope2 · 26-30, F
MarineBob · 56-60, M
No, I still haven't and he's been dead a few years now
JupiterDreams · 31-35
Several people have.

The two I forgave fairly quick. The current one, I struggle to forgive... But I'm trying.
I'm Italian betray me and you're dead to me
Yes. And it wasn't quick or easy.
ncgremlin · 56-60, M
Nope and never would
@saragoodtimes I loved an Italian very much he & his daughter betrayed me. The lies killed my trust more than once. I shouldnt have kept trusting but he was so convincing. Io sono molto triste.
Driver2 · M
It depends I can forgive but end up forgetting them all together

I try not to be like that but I always do . Sometimes you just have to follow what you feel.
Beautywithin · 36-40, F
I've forgiven but never forgot and that in its self changes the relationship you have with them.
@Beautywithin agree bc then you can’t look at them the same
No. I can be quite unforgiving, even after an insincere apology.

However, I am able to let the matter as well as the person go.
To the best of my ability, yes. The hurt and anger raises their heads now and again. But I try to forget their cruelties.
thiccchungles · 22-25, F
Yeah someone stick bugged me and I still hate the person
@thiccchungles stick bugged as in your personal computer?
thiccchungles · 22-25, F
@DecafD [youtube=https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fC7oUOUEEi4]
For cheating? I really stopped having an emotional attachment after 5 years.
Extant1 · M
Yes of course
People change over time
You have to give them the chance to grow
Lee124 · F
Yes and about as quick as it took him to break it again lol
Yes. I don't hold grudges, so it comes easy with me.
@LostAtsea even if the person really hurt you? You just cut them loose and let the feelings go?
GuyWithOpinions · 31-35, M
I had to forgive my exgf for many things over a period of time. It was a complicated situation where i believed i was protecting her from herself. She was literally insane. I had to learn to instantly let go because alot of the time she wouldnt remeber and there would just be a path of destruction. I learned to control myself really well but the scars lasted for years after.
Yes a few people & I've forgiven them more than once.
Forgiveness is not my department..
OnePatheticClown · 51-55, M
No, I just can't.
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RainontheMoon · 51-55, F
If I can see the person and not have what they did immediately come to mind, I would say I have forgiven them.
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@Stereoguy aww that’s so sad. Well glad you were able to forgive before he passed!
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Forgiveness isn't my strong point
Azlotto · M
Never!

 
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