I Need to Vent

OMG I am so tired of being single and alone and it's hard to break out of it because NOBODY wants me.

Biaasin · 31-35, F

Focus on doing good for yourself. Not only will you feel better, you will become more desireable.

Eat clean / healthy. Maybe try out some yummy vegetarian/vegan recipes

Start working out - endorphin rush AND improved body image ;D

Start a new book to read. And then once you finish it, start another one.

All of these things keep you busy and focused on bettering yourself, rather than on the fact that you don't currently have a partner. And all the while make you more desireable.

Work on becoming the person that you yourself would want to be with.

LadyGrace

You just haven’t found the right person who will appreciate you. It’s nothing personal, really. Everyone just has different tastes. Don’t give up. You’re young yet.

4meAndyou · F

One thing you need to know about love and a relationship, is that when you shift your focus away from yourself and start feeling that other people and their feelings are more important than yours, love will find you.

Highonheels · 51-55, M

@4meAndyou that’s true but the problem with that is that you gotta put yourself out there for love to find you , if you don’t get out a lot like me , love will never find you, plus you gotta be willling and able to accept it when the opportunity presents itself.

4meAndyou · F

@Highonheels Then some things in your life need to change.

Highonheels · 51-55, M

@4meAndyou yea I agree

MarkPaul · 26-30, M

James! People want you. You just don't want them back.

Addictedtoglamour · 31-35, M

@MarkPaul Nobody really approaches me or shows any interest though

Highonheels · 51-55, M

@Addictedtoglamour do you show any interest in them , sometimes you have to approach them you can’t always sit back and wait for someone to approach you