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I Am Very Selective When It Comes to Letting People Get Close

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I Am Very Selective When It Comes to Letting People Get Close
I am usually content with listening to people tell their stories and im usually pretty good at making people comfortable because I typically don't judge their choices because I know how horrible that would feel. however, im too scared to let peo...
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Jun 10, 2020
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I Am Very Selective When It Comes to Letting People Get Close
I think humility is a beautiful thing. When you look down at the world from fake heights you miss the truth and reality of what is actually in it. And it doesn't really make you high. Being open and non judgemental are beautiful.
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Apr 27, 2020
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I Am Very Selective When It Comes to Letting People Get Close
Once bitten twice shy. I have to trust you don't have any ulterior motives.
13-15, F
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Mar 23, 2020
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I Am Very Selective When It Comes to Letting People Get Close
After some hard times I developed intimacy and trust issues. Sometimes I try to joke around and be funny at first to prevent any vulnerability, but I feel like being "Ms. Charm" is like a thing I need to do. I spend more time alone now so ...
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Sep 27, 2019
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I Am Very Selective When It Comes to Letting People Get Close
I have very few friends in real life and often prefer to be alone, that's why I'm fiercely loyal to them and try my best to maintain communication with them. I don't like shallow friendships and whenever a new person tries to get invol...
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18-21, F
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Sep 19, 2019
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I Am Very Selective When It Comes to Letting People Get Close
Time reveals who people really are.. It takes time to build and earn trust..
26-30, F
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Jul 5, 2019
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I Am Very Selective When It Comes to Letting People Get Close
*long rant* The passing of time makes certain things clear... people don't change unless they work on it, really hard. Well, certain aspects always change, obviously. Health, cognitive decline in some people... yeah, well. Just a couple of week...
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Jan 20, 2019
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I Am Very Selective When It Comes to Letting People Get Close
True......
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Jan 6, 2019
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I Am Very Selective When It Comes to Letting People Get Close
I'm anti social. But it can change if I'm hanging out with some people I trust and I know. I'm taking risk by distant myself than socialise with them because if I want some friends I want to them trust me as much as I trust them. S...
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22-25, M
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Nov 11, 2018
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I Am Very Selective When It Comes to Letting People Get Close
It's funny how I can feel relaxed amongst a large crowd of people, like a fair or festival setting. But get me in a small space with a few people, I become withdrawn, on-guard.
61-69, F
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Oct 20, 2018
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I Am Very Selective When It Comes to Letting People Get Close
I will chat with anyone but letting someone close to me rarely happens.
36-40, F
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Oct 5, 2018
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I Am Very Selective When It Comes to Letting People Get Close
Life has taught me that you can't control someone's loyalty, no matter how good you are to them, doesn't mean that they will treat you the same. No matter how much they mean to you, doesn't mean that they will value you the same...
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31-35, F
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Sep 22, 2018
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I Am Very Selective When It Comes to Letting People Get Close
I've met someone. Finally. Like really met someone and just clicked on so many levels. But I don't know if I want or know how to let them in. It's not been that long since we started talking. But still I'm scared he'll see me...
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26-30, F
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Jul 29, 2018
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I Am Very Selective When It Comes to Letting People Get Close
It is better being alone than being with a wrong person...
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Jul 16, 2018
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I Am Very Selective When It Comes to Letting People Get Close
Not everyone has the same heart as I do, and having had my heart broken beyond belief I have learned to be more cautious in my attempt to protect it. Especially concerning men. Bad memories, hurtful words and betrayal have made me more careful about ...
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Jul 12, 2018
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I Am Very Selective When It Comes to Letting People Get Close
.... But I never meet a stranger. I worked in the pubic all my life. I enjoyed interacting with folks. I am queen of friendly and caring small talk. I even have an essence that has drawn some to me. .... But I am very selective when it comes to letti...
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61-69, F
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Feb 28, 2018
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I Am Very Selective When It Comes to Letting People Get Close
I have friendly but sort of superficial relationships with a lot of people, but there really are only a handful of people that I'd say I'm really close to. But I trust those people and I think I've chosen them well
22-25, F
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Feb 7, 2018
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I Am Very Selective When It Comes to Letting People Get Close
I'm a member of the Self Preservation Society.
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Jan 31, 2018
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I Am Very Selective When It Comes to Letting People Get Close
My mother insists I need to be circumspect, because my being of mixed race can impact on my life with some people. She has been made to think like this by adverse experience that I haven't had at all! However, I am slow to trust people because ...
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Jan 18, 2018
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I Am Very Selective When It Comes to Letting People Get Close
It’s not that I’m that selective but it does take me time to let you get close. Sometimes I’ll make a leap of faith depending how I’m feeling emotionally and I’ll let people in sooner because I will go with my first real impression of you.
18-21, F
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Dec 21, 2017
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