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I Think I Am Ugly

I hate needing validation from men. I want to be beautiful. I want men to find me attractive, but I'm ugly. Now, I know not all men will like me, but being ugly is the worst. I'd kill for beauty. It would make my life so much easier.
Don't compare yourself to the women in the media. Have you ever seen them in jeans and a t-shirt and no makeup? Even when they starve themselves and are dressed to the nine, their images still get airbrushed. The more you accept yourself, the more others will accept you. You need your own validation and then the men will come.
ThePerfectUsername · 70-79, M
Aim high, don't aim to entertain the masses. Someone somewhere will think you're the most insanely beautiful woman they've ever seen. And when you find him none of the rest will even matter any more. You're the only person in the world who can ever pull being you off... it's a once in a lifetime opportunity, don't let it go to waste.
ShellAccount · 22-25, M
The sick thing is, beautiful people are just as miserable as the rest of us. They get all the superficial attention one can ask for, but that doesn't really nourish the psyche.
lovecatsnothumans · 31-35, F
@ShellAccount This is a good point.
polyandrym66 · 70-79, M
Many men will find you beautiful and sexy and attractive because you are Black...
So just get out and flaunt what you've got...
And SMILE a lot...

The social butterflies will fill up your dance card.. Just give em a chance..
AuRevoir · 36-40, M
You definitely don't seem ugly. It's hard for any of us to appreciate ourselves in such matters. But I hope you begin to see yourself for who you really are. And I don't believe being ugly is a part of that.
MarkPaul · 26-30, M
The grass always looks more beautiful on the other side. Focus on what is in your control. Embrace the rest.
Rambler · 61-69, M
Don’t let others determine your value. You know your own worth.
AngelKrish · 26-30, M
I believe appearance don't make anymore beautiful....
Goodness of heart and purity of soul are very important to be beautiful!
Thats, only the reason all girls with beautiful appearance don't become Miss world or miss Universe, only one of them with real beauty wins the crown!
Reverend · M
Don't worry about what others think. Fortunately Television has put much emphasis on beauty and what it should look like. Your beautiful, be blessed and be thankful for who you are.
lovecatsnothumans · 31-35, F
@Reverend Thank you
Reverend · M
@lovecatsnothumans YW🌹🤗
Carazaa · F
No one stays for outside beauty only for Inside beauty! That is the only kind that lasts! We get more lovely with age on the inside, if we are working on ourselves!
Carazaa · F
Inside beauty is what counts and will keep a man! We will all grow old but we get more beautiful each day on the inside! Be friends first and let a man get to know you!
Carazaa · F
You’re not ugly don’t say things like that! Be yourself and if they don’t like you they’re not good enough!
lovecatsnothumans · 31-35, F
@Carazaa true
xixgun · M
Apparently 9 out of 10 women on the internet is bi; so that ought to raise the odds
Ursamajor · 46-50, F
Beauty standarts change. Be the change.
Montanaman · M
I think you are very attractive and beautiful 🤗🥰💞🌹
It would make it easier in one way, and only temporarily, and harder in another. You would be using your beauty to maintain your beauty/ugly consciousness, which would further widen the gap between your identity and your true self.
Success · 26-30, F
Develop an amazing personality. The odd guy isn't interested in looks.
Nicenlong · 41-45, M
You're not ugly your a beautiful woman x
SW-User
Your pic looks pretty damn good.
Quizzical · 46-50, M
Whyever would you think that? 😟
Sorry to hear that

 
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