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I Think I Am Ugly

Well growing up I always felt insicure with the way I look,I remember walking down the road and trying not to look any mirriors o glasses,because I didn’t wanna see my refletion.
I remember that one day,at school,I was in class,talking to a girl that was sitting next to me.I noticed that tho she was looking at me she wasn’t really listening,so I stopped and she said “….U are soooo ugly”,she then noticed the look on my face and added “Oh I was just kidding”.
I remember everyone use to say “Oh your mom is so beatifull,your sister is so pretty,your little brother is so cute!”,but never really say such nice things about me.
Nowadays when someone call me handsome It just…meaningless,because I don’t feel like I am and nothing anyone say is gonna change that. It makes me feel wierd because It feels like they are just lying,and trying to be nice.
JBird · F
I am not that good looking either when I was at school and college. I was chubby and ugly curly hair. No guys came up to me and asked me out and every guys I had crush on rejected me. They teased me whenever I passed. I was compared to my mother who was good looking. But somehow a best friend of mine started to go out with him. I wanted to be good looking for him and started to workout and shed a few pounds. Then I changed my hairstyle and did some home remedies to make my hair grow smooth and strong. It really boosted my self esteem because now people started to notice me. Although my change didn't make me strikingly beautiful, I am above average looking.

The key is to boost your confidence, you just have to find something that makes you feel happy. I saw your pic and I don't think you look ugly. I do think you have a nice body (I am not being creepy, I promise!)
Effloresce · 26-30, F
It takes a lot of work and mental effort to build your self confidence high enough to know your own beauty and worth. I’m currently on that journey. I wish the best for you
infiniterealism · 51-55, M
Post a pic and I will tell you. I am pretty sure you are not ugly.
infiniterealism · 51-55, M
@jrcervin No you are not ugly. Your face have a nice shape and you have a slim muscular built. I think it's your confidence that you have to work on.
jrcervin · 26-30, M
@infiniterealism Maybe,thx
infiniterealism · 51-55, M
@jrcervin You are welcome.
ImKelsey · 26-30, F
Post a pic and I'll give you an honest opinion
ImKelsey · 26-30, F
@jrcervin Use the first icon under post a comment
jrcervin · 26-30, M
ImKelsey · 26-30, F
@jrcervin Not ugly
SW-User
because you’re still living in the past
SW-User
You are not ugly 🤦‍♀️
jrcervin · 26-30, M
@SW-User Again,feels wierd when ppl so say,I just don't see it
SW-User
@jrcervin we are all ugly to someone and we are all attractive to someone 🤷‍♀️
It’s too bad that most of us tend to hear and absorb insults more readily than compliments. You [b]are[/b] a handsome young man. I’m a stranger and I gain nothing from saying so, but I believe it to be true. Someday someone will tell you, and you’ll believe it. 🙂

 
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