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I Have Relationship Issues

So I’ve been currently dating this amazing man for 6 months and I’ve noticed lately I’m still paranoid about everything that went down between my ex husband and I happening with me and my boyfriend. It caused some major issues tonight and he’s trying to process things. We aren’t speaking much and I can’t sleep at all even though it’s after 3 in the morning. I honestly don’t know what to do right now. Part of me says just prepare for the worst. I’ll be fine on my own. Always have been and always will. Just highly emotional right now and I’m trying to give him space.

On top of this is my health. I have to see a breast specialist next month for some issues... things are just fantastic right now lemme tell ya.

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samueltyler2 · 80-89, M

Step carefully, but don't retreat completely. It is 4 years, I hope your breast issues are resolved loved. I now have prostate issues myself.

bearinthehalfwayhouse · 26-30, M

Understandable, it's only human to anticipate something your current lover would do that your ex did... I know my ex is gonna be fucked up for a while because of the shit I did but.............. God,, I wish there was a reset button on LYFE!!

Mamapolo2016 · F

There are few relationship issues worse than being punished for someone else's wrong-doing. There's no defense.

Whether or not this relationship works out, I urge you to get counseling and sort out how you can stop a previous bad relationship from wrecking a current good one.

Carissimi · F

Counseling is good, but not always successful. It depends on how much damage is sustained, and if trust can ever be restored. Hopefully, it’s reversible for the poster. @Mamapolo2016

Carissimi · F

We do tend to carry these things over from one relationship to another, and I’m the last person to give advice about this, but it’s good to vent your feelings. I wish you well.

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