I Have a Secret
I kind of want my future husband to call me darling 🤭 . Do any young people still say that? The only time I hear it is with older people or people who are being creepy or sarcastic.
26-30, F
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rckt148 · 61-69, M
Its not a word so commonly used anymore
When I call my lady friends (who I know are 100% ladies )"dear" .its is meant with 100% respect ,,Like dear Sir or Madam
That was also a commonly use term when I was growing up
But now days I find more and more women telling me not to use that disrespectful word with them ,and when I explain it was not meant as disrespect at all ,"don't give me that southern gentlemen crap ,I know condescending when I hear it"
Now lady what you hear is your a nut ,that does not know shit from shihola ,,,another phrase not used anymore
The womans lib movements and feminist has ruined more the the words we used to use affectionately
When I call my lady friends (who I know are 100% ladies )"dear" .its is meant with 100% respect ,,Like dear Sir or Madam
That was also a commonly use term when I was growing up
But now days I find more and more women telling me not to use that disrespectful word with them ,and when I explain it was not meant as disrespect at all ,"don't give me that southern gentlemen crap ,I know condescending when I hear it"
Now lady what you hear is your a nut ,that does not know shit from shihola ,,,another phrase not used anymore
The womans lib movements and feminist has ruined more the the words we used to use affectionately