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I think it is an old fashioned term but very acceptable if you and your future husband like the term. I kind of like it too.

I've never used it but that's gentleman talk right there

all I wish is to be called love like those men in British novels do

Love pet names of all kinds. 💕

@BeefySenpie calls me darling🤭

ummm lol I used to say it as a joke or to be sarcastic then I said it so often that it would come out every now even when I wasn't just joking about haha! so 1 young person at least

I could see myself calling my significant other darling I have a taste for class and respect

What ever is right for you is good not creepy or sarcastic at all.

Its not a word so commonly used anymore
When I call my lady friends (who I know are 100% ladies )"dear" .its is meant with 100% respect ,,Like dear Sir or Madam
That was also a commonly use term when I was growing up
But now days I find more and more women telling me not to use that disrespectful word with them ,and when I explain it was not meant as disrespect at all ,"don't give me that southern gentlemen crap ,I know condescending when I hear it"
Now lady what you hear is your a nut ,that does not know shit from shihola ,,,another phrase not used anymore

The womans lib movements and feminist has ruined more the the words we used to use affectionately

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