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What was the reason you broke up?

Or how was your last argument like?
Tell me your breakup stories so that I can feel better.. lol

This wasn't from my last brack up but was from the one that I loved the most. She told me that we don't have the same social status(she went to a really good university, her parents paid for it) and we can't be together but we can still be friends😂. However she's currently unemployed (never had a job actually) still living on her parents money and sometimes still texts me with stuff like "whats up bro?". No matter how much I ignore her. Idk why I haven't bloked her already...

*has anyone seen my vodka?

jellyfishman · 31-35, F

@SirEgoDeathTheFirst damn :-0.. she a royal family or something? lol.. that mustve been shocking to hear huh..

SirEgoDeathTheFirst · 26-30, M

@jellyfishman she's just a little peasant and her parents money got to her head. Shit happens I guess

dale74 · M

@SirEgoDeathTheFirst you got to go ahead and let her go swimming ever come see the poor boy make love to her and make sure to leave a baby up inside then she'll get a reality check from our parents. Well having to have a baby from a man from a lower class....

summersong · F

Gaslighting, cheating, lying, and blaming me for “making him do it”

jellyfishman · 31-35, F

@summersong ugh.. just reading this gives me a headache :-/.. I might be wrong but those who play twisted mind games are one of the worst.. coz it's really really confusing when it's just your perspective against his words.. like, even though you're sure about something at first, then after some arguments with that person, you start to feel like "am I the one with narrow perspective? am I crazy? maybe I'm missing something?".. danmn I hate it :-/..

Nobody00 · F

@summersong wow what a clever excuse. When ppl do dumb shit cause they like it and then its your fault.

ginnyfromtheblock · 26-30, F

he didn’t love me anymore

jellyfishman · 31-35, F

@ginnyfromtheblock :-( that's kinda sad but, hope you found or will find someone whom you can love mutually more than before.. !

MrBlueGuy

@ginnyfromtheblock Impossible 🥺

jellyfishman · 31-35, F

@MrBlueGuy oh no!! it's not true.. you're so young and there are so many people out there..!! I'm sure there will be lots of lots of amazing people you'll meet that you didn't even imagine to meet before...!

4meAndyou · F

I divorced because he threatened my freedom. Over a money issue.

jellyfishman · 31-35, F

@4meAndyou ugh.. @.@ Money is such a sensitive&important matter to me.. if someone was being mean over a money issue with me, I really wouldn't know what to do.. .

Adogslife · 61-69, M

Sexless marriage.

After 30+ years of differing needs, I finally told her we have three options:
1) I have an an affair
2) We have an open marriage
3) Divorce

Two weeks later she filed for divorce. She thought I’d try to tell her to stay. That wasn’t an option.

jellyfishman · 31-35, F

@Adogslife sounds like you were being honest and fair...!

Adogslife · 61-69, M

@jellyfishman Marriages take more effort, but unfixable is an issue in any relationship.

Everyone just needs to know that there’s light at the end of the tunnel. It’s a big world with someone great that wants to meet you. They just want you to be single. 😉

WhiskeyxXxLullabye · 46-50, F

He was a lazy POS, would not, for the life of us, get healthier. Was with him for 10 years, he is a big boy. His mom and I tried getting him to make better life/health choices, but he refused. I still stuck around, 10 years!, he had a mini heart attack and found out he was diabetic. Still refused to change, no matter what we did, or said. I finally had enough! I was not going to sit around and watch him slowly kill himself, so I left almost 2 years ago. Found out he had a stroke not too long ago, I see he is still refusing to change his habits. 🤦‍♀️🤷‍♀️

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WhiskeyxXxLullabye · 46-50, F

@jellyfishman yeah 10 years was a long time to put up with that, but I loved him, well thought I did. The past 17 months have been amazing, I'm with my childhood sweetheart now.

jellyfishman · 31-35, F

@WhiskeyxXxLullabye aw.. I am happy to hear you are in a happy and healthy position now :-)))))

WhiskeyxXxLullabye · 46-50, F

@jellyfishman thank you, so am I 😁

SW-User

Cuz he was always too busy to even talk to me. I asked him what he was busy doing. And he replied "nothing." I should have known once a dick always a dick. Now he just makes me sick that I'm so pissed that I let him treat me so badly.

SW-User

My ex was an alcoholic and drug user/dealer. I suspect infidelity too. So I took my child and left him. Worst time of my life yet best decision I ever made.

jellyfishman · 31-35, F

@SW-User that sounds so wild and traumatic @.@...!!! I'm glad you were able to leave and protect your child ... big hug!

SW-User

🤗s you back@jellyfishman

Nobody00 · F

Got emotionally or mentally too tired finally. I think it killed my feeling of love. And without feelings there is no point in staying for me.

jellyfishman · 31-35, F

@Nobody00 true.. relationship shoupd be loving and beneficial.. not the other way around..

PerfectionOfTheHeart · 46-50, F

He secretly had a pregnant fiancé at home. Kind of a deal breaker.

jellyfishman · 31-35, F

@PerfectionOfTheHeart Geez........... smh smh...

PerfectionOfTheHeart · 46-50, F

@jellyfishman Yeah, he was a real winner. But they did end up getting married and having a family so even though that was a dick move on his part, they’re still together and seem happy from what I’ve heard from mutual friends so I’m happy for them. After we broke up the universe pointed me in the direction of a great man and we have a beautiful family so I have no ill feelings towards the whole thing. The breakup was a gift actually.

jellyfishman · 31-35, F

@PerfectionOfTheHeart That's great to hear that you made a happy family with a great husband :-).. I do really hope the guy is treating his fiance-now his wife- well tho..

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jellyfishman · 31-35, F

@SW-User aw great that you were able to sort things out with conversation :-)

SW-User

He went for the cheaper option

jellyfishman · 31-35, F

@SW-User huh?? did he treat relationship as some sort of a product he can buy..?

SW-User

@jellyfishman 🤷‍♀️ cheaper came along it's all he could afford.

zaatar · 22-25, F

he was cheating

jellyfishman · 31-35, F

@zaatar >:-( im glad you're not with him anymore..! you don't deserve a cheater..!

SW-User

나는 부정행위 때문에 헤어졌다.

PrivateHell · M

Too steep of an angle upon re-entry.

jellyfishman · 31-35, F

@PrivateHell sorry I guess I don't know what it means 😥 re-entry to some other country..?

PrivateHell · M

@jellyfishman it was a joke. When a rocket or satelite re-enters the atmosphere if it isn't the right angle, it breaks up

jellyfishman · 31-35, F

@PrivateHell Aw XD.. you're so kind to explain it.. I don't really have a good humor sense, I often don't understand many jokes I think lol........... bad bad.

SW-User

Mistrust and lies can ruin everything.

jellyfishman · 31-35, F

@SW-User true.. trust is everything :-/.. i do make micro lies everyday too like about my feelings and stuff, but i feel like even this socially accepted white lies can be very toxic in the long term.. im trying to work on it but, i feel like this habit of mine has been one of the biggest reason that i couldn't build a healthy relationship..

SW-User

@jellyfishman There have been a couple relationships where this has occurred one didn't end well and the other will never b the same. Do away with bullshit and drama it's not good for anyone.

Ingwe · F

he was too handsome

jellyfishman · 31-35, F

@Ingwe ooh? :-0 interesting...!

Azlotto · M

My last break up was because her work visa expired.

jellyfishman · 31-35, F

@Azlotto ahh.. that sucks :-(...! 😫

Nobody00 · F

@Azlotto Chinese lady? Why did you marry for green card if it was so great

SW-User

Different reasons on different occasions. Usually my fault tho.

My drink and drug habits used to get in the way and, recently, I haven't always been able to be there when I'm needed.

jellyfishman · 31-35, F

@SW-User at least you know your own problem and accept it as it is, is really great I think.. hope you get better with drug problems :-0..

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