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I Am Hurting

And we argue a lot. Like almost every single day. I'm getting tired of this relationship. I put all my might to keep it working. I'm so tired emotionally and physically. Do i have to get through this? I want to ask him what happened to those promises he told me. A million times i choose him even if it hurts like hell. I choose him everyday because i love him. But my heart can't just take it anymore. I don't deserve this kind of treatment.

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SW-User

You need to let him go, I know when it gets this far it will not get better until he knows you have moved on. A woman needs to respect herself, maybe it's not only his fault, but look at you. Clearly you held on to someone that doesn't exist anymore. You need to become strong, even if it's hard, don't let someone put you down to that level.

DaveyWavey01 · M

Time for a sit down talk with him. One of those important ones. Let him know how much you’re hurting and be honest with him

Mellifluous · 31-35, F

@DaveyWavey01 we tried, but we just end up blaming each other instead of resolving it.

Montanaman · M

@DaveyWavey01 exactly. I call them, one of those 4 Fucking AM talks...
Because, that's what time She woke me up to have the talk. And believe me...it worked. 🤪😜

DaveyWavey01 · M

@Mellifluous sorry to hear that then. Maybe have another talk telling him you think things haven’t changed and how sad you feel

SW-User

Self-care is vital for every relationship to keep toxicity out”—without it, you're not bringing your best self to the party.
🤗

Miram · 31-35, F

it is going to start hurting your physical health

You have to take care

KuroNeko · 41-45, F

Maybe it's time to let it go, if only just to get some clarity. You may both realise that you want each other or that life is less stressful without. I hope you figure it out soon. It's a horrible place to find yourself. 🤗

Montanaman · M

I'm sorry 😔🤗 you should choose You.🤗🥰

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